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[nataliee]

"Sometimes we need a heartbreak in order to put a conclusion and things. Otherwise we'll be working on the wrong damn thing forever."

[AliseL]

Very well said Margarita. One thing I would love to tell young people is this: When someone is ignoring you (and there is no basis for it and you have tried to reach out), move on, take the queue they're not interested any longer. It might be hard to take, but in the end you will be much happier.

[coldlogic-gtkg]

I’m 20 and my bf told me doesn’t feel the same about me. I just stared at him and was about to leave, and he asked me “aren’t you going to ask me why?”… why would I need to know. I looked at him and said “You promised a lot of things but you didn’t even fulfill one of them. And you can’t even look at me saying all this, so what’s the point of me asking you why? Because when you promise things you lie to my face, and build a shitty image of yourself… a man who can’t even keep his words is a coward.” I was leaving and he told me he wanted to give me a hug, and asked me if we can still be friends. I told him to be friends with himself and left. Wtf. And not even 12 hours in and he sent me paragraphs, which I didn’t even read. Like I don’t need explanations, once you left me, means you are dead to me and you never existed.

[Patternlogic]

This is so true. You can’t truly experience true love or appreciate what you have until you’ve experienced the opposite. I had my heartbroken for the first time at age 31. I truly understood what it means when someone tells you who they are the first time believe them. I fell into the trap of believing in someone’s potential not who they were and that as long as you put in the work you can make love work, it didn’t because it was never meant to work. It hurt but I do believe this was a gift. I don’t think most people who break your heart are bad people but I understand now that people will always do what they think is best for them no matter how much you think you love them or sacrificed for the relationship. Love yourself first, set boundaries, love but don’t expect, watch their actions, and have the courage to walk away. Hard lessons indeed.

[rl]

Worst time of my life but forced me to be healthier, learn about my attachments and traumas… it’s sucks it’s all consuming but I promise one day you’ll look back and realize was never the person… was the illusions in your head and feeling triggered and unloved. Love yourself, keep yourself busy learn and elevate - best thing I ever did was keep improving myself till he wasn’t my type anymore

[Eg-jdzt]

Just broke up with my dismissive avoidant yesterday. This came just in time

[holakarlapaola]

This is so true. I wasn’t feeling loved in my marriage anymore and I tried and I tried to ask him to do the things I wanted in order to feel loved. And even though I thought on leaving him because he just wants loving me anymore I didn’t have the courage to leave. Until I found out he cheated on me, that’s the thing that shook me and allowed me to have the courage to leave. Great video ❤

[getfitwithlaura]

This comment section is giving me so much comfort knowing that the gut wrenching pain you feel when your heart breaks is universal and applies to all ages and generations. We are united in our ability to feel so deeply and the right people will be so lucky to experience it! Sending love and light to everyone who are hurting and healing. You'll get through it! x

[carolynalexander]

Not just a video for those in their 20s!! Romantic heartbreak even at age 62 can be devastating, but it can also be a learning experience, pointing one to what they want, need, and DESERVE! Provided we learn from the experience to make the next relationship better, heartbreak can be a gift. I'm still walking through it, but getting closer to the other side, where I believe there is something so much better waiting for me! A quote I came across the other day applies, I think. "If you can love the wrong person that much, just imagine how much you can love the right one." We all have love to give, and the right person will accept it for the gift it is. Praying for all of these commenters who are grieving, and while I wish for you it wasn't happening, It is comforting to know that we are not alone. Thank you, Margarita, for your encouragement through this video (and for the videos on attachment styles - I am learning so much that will benefit me going forward in life and love). You are wise beyond your years.

[PBandH]

Margarita, I found your channel a couple days ago and I found your video on dismissive-avoidant people in relationships. I have never, in my entire life, cried so hard at a youtube video explaining exactly what lead me to be me. You've completely changed my relationship life in ways you will never see, but just know you've changed people's minds. I will send your videos to anyone I know that's suffering. I'm so pleased I found your channel. My heartbreak is slowly fading away...

[vikaphotography]

THIS. I too remember the exact moment in my early 20s when I realized people can look you straight in the eye and lie for selfish motives and self preservation. I was in the middle of testifying and realized how truly evil people could be and how dangerous it could be to assume pure intentions from everyone. I never saw anyone, much less society, the same ever again. I studied everything I could about deception/reading people and it has preemptively saved me a lot of heartache.

Amazing job, as always. I always look forward to your content and have adopted your mindset. (I’m one of the OGs from TikTok and literally binged all of your videos lol). It feels so empowering — I can’t thank you enough ❤❤❤

[SS-ints]

I hate when people say to stop caring as if humans are robots. Enjoying this video because you said none of that!

[rl]

Worst time of my life but forced me to be healthier, learn about my attachments and traumas… it’s sucks it’s all consuming but I promise one day you’ll look back and realize was never the person… was the illusions in your head and feeling triggered and unloved. Love yourself, keep yourself busy learn and elevate - best thing I ever did was keep improving myself till he wasn’t my type anymore

[Acestrup]

26 and just got out of a 6 year relationship, really teaches you the important things in life after a heartbreak but also shows what is important later one, but when you meet the one.. you know, it will never be toxic, just know that🙏🏽

[Jakilyn]

Struggling with Heartbreak right now 😢 sometimes things don't always transpire as we've planned

[braskevful]

My boyfriend of 3 years dumped me 4 days after my 30 birthday via DISCORD just because i told him we should move in together. Untill that point he made plans, promised me future, all this stuff. Its been a year and i still cant shake of it. It was so rapid, so unexpected and humiliating. I just dont understand how someone can say "I love you" every day for 3 years and then do this. Doesnt help the fact that i lost my mother to cancer when i was 11 years old and my twin brother died 5 years ago. I feel this grief so hard i dont see any future for myself anymore. How you can trust anyone after something like that.

[samco]

Glad I came across this video again. Currently going through a heartbreak in a relationship, I’m still in it, but I was hurt in such a big way by his actions and there’s been no repair, that I realise the relationship is coming to an end 😔. The only worse thing he could do is cheat, and I don’t want to stick around for that. So my heart is currently breaking as I’m making my decision … as well as having so much loss last year, for people and animals I love so much. It feels like I don’t have the strength to go through it all. And then at 37, I feel like I have no hope of meeting a man who I can build the life and love I really want with. But trying to be brave and just walk through it, take it day by day.

[spacequeenruby]

"It broke my brain" yesss...there's some heartbreaks that truly tear you up. Not just emotionally

[jodie]

I could listen to Margarita talk about anything. She is well spoken but her words and voice also somehow empower me and make me feel like I'm talking to an older and wiser sister ❤

[nicoleh]

Girl ... I swear your timing is Always on point. These talks are everything!