This is how to get out of a toxic relationship | Najwa Zebian & Lisa Bilyeu #relationship

[JLTravels]

Yes, staying is a trap caused by not knowing what tools we need to leave.

[MarkLupson-itxu]

Fear is a reaction.
Courage is a choice.
Be kind to yourself.
Just try to make the right choice.
You already know what the right choice is.

[AndreaKennedy-fb]

I'm going to talk to myself with more compassion. ❤❤❤

[nalalal]

🎉🫂💞...LOVE YOURSELF MORE AND DON'T LET SNYONE ABUSE YOU MENTALLY NOR PHYSICALLY AND HAVE MORE CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF!! PRAY TO BECOME STRONG AND MAKE IT HAPPEN FOR YOURSELF!!

[JJTenby]

Power! Love it when this beautiful lady says “I did not know I had this much power” At the time we never get in touch with that powerful side of ourselves. It’s always after and my goodness are we powerful! 💪

[elizabethmoore]

She is so right, unbelievable this is my story.

[stacyjaye]

At some point, you turn from a victim into a volunteer. The women I know that stayed did it for material possessions. They simply didn't want to go to a shelter and start over and provide for themselves and their kids.

[CellasCurations]

This is also true for friendships and community .

[erikamaymusic]

and the intrinsic knowledge that when a woman leaves an abusive relationship, that is the most dangerous time. Statistics show that most female homicide happens when a woman is leaving an abusive relationship.

[birdlady]

Plus, growing up in an abusive covert malignant N environment, we don't learn escape tactics. We grew up in survival mode. If in another bad relationship, it turns into a new survival mode. We were not given the tools to escape. 😢

[ConciousConnection]

And then when you leave you use the hate you feel to hold the rocks they continue to throw at you together to build a future 💯 😉

[AlanaMorris-zo]

It’s okay to leave, just leave. “Just trust me you’ll be fine!”

[annemccarron]

I don't critcize myself for marrying & divorcing an abusive man. My mother was abusive. It's all I ever knew. I was gaslighted into believing it was my fault. I eventually learned differently, but even if it was all my fault, I did not want to live with that man. Period!

[ivonap]

Thanks for sharing this interesting perspective but my perspective is that truth is somewhere on half way. Because we must admit that every relationship is based on certain interests. The biggest stake biggest game harder to walk away. Also there's no right or wrong person as relationships isn't mechanics garage relationships is equal investment of both parties so no one needs to fix anyone, and no wrong or right person. Unless this lady has some manual how people must be (like kitchen appliances) in that case my biggest apologies and pardon me for being honest.
Once again thank you for sharing this. It's incredible kind of you.

[kasko]

... and sometimes because people have no place to go or lack the means.

[suedoenim]

We stay because financially we cant leave.

[peeweelickdoughal]

Or you're terrified of their reaction when you leave and you have to get out quietly and change the locks on your door and be stalked for months and months. If you're married, you have to separate the finances. Most people are in a habit of cohabitation, not a partnership because of this.

[ankedorotheareich]

Everybody whonis now thinking ... "I stay...shit". Please contact me. Help you to help yourself out. I know what it means, i leave on monday. ✨♥️

[tomatox]

How about talking to your husband instead of destroying a family because you’re not happy. Try doing something actionable and staying, instead of doing something actionable and leaving.

[WildflowerAnn]

I disagree a 1000 times. Dr. Ramani gets it..