Why Do Asian Girls ONLY Date White Guys (EXPLAINED)

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In this video, I explained I cover the popular topic regarding whether Asian girls only date white guys and how a lot of Asian girls have different expectations for Asian vs White guys.

While it might seem like some Asian girls only date White guys, plenty of Asian girls prefer dating Asian guys such as Miki Rai, a popular nurse influencer, who prefers dating Asian guys.

The thing is, most Asian girls who prefer dating Asian guys aren't as outspoken about it, which is why I'm covering this topic to give hope to all my fellow Asian brothas out there who are looking to date an Asian girl.

Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
0:45 - WMAF
1:28 - Miki Rai
3:45 - Dating Preference
4:50 - Lus Explained
6:03 - Yellow Fever
7:28 - Expectations for Asian vs White Guys
8:26 - Traits of LUs
10:20 - Tips for Asian Guys

[TheBigExclusive]

I don't mind if someone dates outside their race. Just don't bash your own race while doing it. Makes you look super insecure.

[roythousand]

Gents, don't let women's racial, ethnic, or nationality preferences deter you from being the best version of yourself.

[Zazzy]

This is such a trend that I always accurately predict any half-Asian person I meet has an Asian mom. ITS ALWAYS THE MOM

[thaojoseph]

I saw an article a few years back (I wish I saved it ) but it was written by an Asian girl whom actually came back from the "LU" phase. She wrote about how she dated a white obese guy despite not even liking him and how that guy disrespected her father in front of her and her father yet she did nothing and chose to run away with the white guy. If I remember correctly she wrote about how she had internalized self hate and hated being Asian .

[HansWhy]

During job interviews, when asked about their previous experiences, Lus answer "I don't date Asian guys, they remind me of my brother."

[Super-ywss]

I agree, ANY race can date whoever but STOP bashing your own race.

[UrbanDanceLegends]

It depends on where you live. Hawaii is majority Asian. Here the women prefer to date other Asian men, even across ethnic backgrounds, and Caucasian men are the least desirable to them. Hawaii in general has a negative outlook on Caucasian people due to the history of the state being taken illegally.

[BlackkRiot]

I've always wondered this. As a black man I've been with my fair share of Asian woman but none of them wanted to take me seriously. They only wanted to have "fun". Their excuses were that their parents wouldn't approve. It use to bother me but over the years, F it. I got mine lol.

[RobertsDigital]

As a black guy I dated:
White girls with no issues
Black girls with no issues
Latinas with no issues
Brown girls with no issues
I have always had issues dating Asian girls. My only two experiences were disastrous. Especially with the last one who was a sales girl. I remember her telling me "I prefer white guys to you." The thing is, I don't even dress like a t***. I dress corporately. Go to the gym and try to eat as healthy as I can. Today I do have a decent job that pays well. Back then I didn't. I was still studying and making travel YT videos as a hobby but she never believed I'll ever amount to anything. She felt that most black folks don't accomplish anything in life. I never blamed her for thinking that way. Perhaps her parents kept bombarding her to think like that. No issues with her choice either.
At the same time she rejected me, I ended up dating a Latina girl for a while. Years later I'm now engaged to this beautiful fashionable Ethiopian Sheba princess with an elegant female physique who treats me like a King. She's a Pediatrician who loves kids.
I later heard that the Asian lady did find a white guy tho called Davide. I was seeing them at a bar restaurant from a distance, a couple of times eating together. They seemed to be happy.
Then about a month ago she spotted me coming out of my office where I worked as a software architect. I was with my colleagues. She was both shocked to see me and excited at the same time because of how suited up and corporately dressed we were.
She called my name and ran up to me, hugging, and giving me kisses on my cheek, and holding my hands.
So me, being the gentleman that I am, asked her how her boyfriend was. She said "Davide?" Then she told me that Davide was the laziest guy she'd ever been with because he never wanted to do anything serious. She even called him a bum. Then I asked her but he does have a job doesn't he? She said, "he always liked to take sick leaves from the forklifting job he does. About 3 months ago, one day, he called me at the profumeria where I worked to tell me that he wasn't going to work because he had a cold. When I got home, he was relaxed on a sofa with a blanket over himself playing a playstation game. Can you imagine? It was becoming a habit so I eventually broke up with him."
I knew she was feeling guilty and apologetic about all the negative things she said to me in the past. Then she asked me If we could return back to being together. For me, it made no sense because we were never together. It was a tuesday so she asked me if we could hang out the following weekend. I honestly could not understand how this lady did not spot the ring on my finger sooner. When I told her that I'm sorry, I could not, holding up my hand for her to see my engagement ring, her eyes brightened up to the glistering diamond on my ring but that was just for a few seconds then it dawned on her that it was no longer possible. I saw the sad disappointed look on her face afterwards before we parted.
I was also concerned that if my wife had spotted her acting excitedly towards me, it would have been FIRE because she'd have confronted her. So I thanked her and hurried off to join my colleagues for lunch.
Never had any luck with Asians and I respect their preferences for the most part. I definitely don't believe all Asian females have this mindset.
Just wanted to share my experience.

[elsongs]

1. They hate their dads
2. They want cute hapa babies
3. They want a white last name

[jdotsalter]

I'm half Black half Chinese American. My Chinese grandmother disowned my mother for marrying my Black dad. Only met 3 Black/Chinese American in my life and see only White guy/Asian girl couples in the US today. A bunch of Wasian kids and 3/4 White 1/4 Asian kids(basically white presenting). It seems to me White men are preferable and actually the goal for Asian women, because you don't see Asian women with other races, just White men. It's definitely a thing. And I'm from California where there is plenty of every race, not just White guys.

[Mikeychang]

It was absolutely hilarious 😂 when you commented on ‘Lu standards’ for Asian men compared to white men. Asian men must fulfill a thousand requirements before they even look at the guy. For white guys ‘They just got to be white’ and she’ll be all over him. It’s so pitiful but so true.

[vampiremommysmilk]

I am South Korean and have never visitted the USA. I heard many Asian men are struggling for dating in many western countries. I actually don't mind our country's women or other Asian women date non Asian men, because it is their choice. And I know this comment is different with tpoic. On nowadays, one thing I cannot understand is I have seen many Asian American women on the internet cry about racism but love blaming and being racist towards Asian men. It is really strange.

[driftkingAGE]

Never apologize. It is what you feel. You are spot on in your analysis. There is a dichotomy of prerequisites that AF have; one for WM & one for AM. You R correct in calling this out and putting it on blast.

[xm_mx]

As an Asian man, I think it is Hollywood and consumer mass media are the two biggest things that make dating white guys "cool". But it is really an economic issue in developing countries for Asian women to choose white men since white men are considered to be wealthier than the local Asian men (it is mostly the case but not always).

[marcelinolopez]

My brother, you should do a show about how latinas are dating Asian men these days. I put my Asian homies on all the time

[Marvelous]

As a black man I'll say this I never considered dating an Asian woman, personally I thought that Asian people stayed with Asian people, (full context, I'm 36 and grew up in Jersey where the Asian population is not so high or at least easily over looked)

12 years ago I met my wife on a dating website, she is from Taiwan. (Never would of thought my wife would be Asian, honestly this is almost the complete opposite of who I seen myself being with.) I was in Spain looking for a señorita 😅. I had my shot at 1 girl in Spain and it didn't pan out due to my career choices.

My wife is the 2nd woman who I ever called my girlfriend. Although she wasn't my preference I took in consideration of values and principles, culturally we are very different but also curious to know each others culture.

Patience and understanding is what binds us to stay together for the long haul, no kids yet. We are learning each day about the ends and outs of our relationship and growth in each other as individuals. Personal growth and development inspires us and motivates us to move in sync with one another.

I am the Head of my wife, which is something most men can't say. It wouldn't matter what woman I married, because if I chose her its because I know why she wants me.

Anyways this topic is very interesting, it almost mirrors what black women express.

Peace and love.

[Chee.Yng]

I used to be into Asian girls during my high school years, then after graduating i just didn’t find some of them attractive anymore (not looks, mainly personality). As an Asian guy, it’s hilarious to be talking to white girls and latinas (and other races) more than my own asian because I’ve never talked to them in school or outside but now, things really changed for me and It’s really just my preference. No disrespect to asian girls tho, some of y’all still cool. Just stay true to yourself tbh :)

[killingjoke]

Years of propaganda and emasculation definitely played a role.

[BasedGymChad]

I've met a few Asian girls who gave me the "I don’t date Asian guys, but you're different" line, thinking it was some kind of flex. Needless to say, they got ghosted.