Should you marry for love?

20 feminine energy principles :

[SnakeBitBob]

"The only thing that makes a marriage unhappy is not a lack of love, it's a lack of friendship."--Nietzche

[calebray]

Correction, Don’t marry for love alone.

[cookie_dough_hangover]

He started fixing things in my home, he was ambitious and kind, we shared the same values. That's why I fell in love. I felt safe, heard and equal to him..

[isabellagigek]

What most people wont admit is that they dont love their partners, they just love the way their partners make them feel.

[shelseaturner]

I'm glad these ideas are coming back. My old favorite saying, 'Kissin' don't last, land lasts'

[samdung]

"It's like starting a company!!" I love it! You're the best!!

[martinraynkelly]

The reason why so many of today's marriages fail because the majority of people don't know what love is. Real Love is sacrifice and compromise. They fail because only one person in the relationship is willing to sacrifice ir compromise or neither one is willing because their selfishness. What you don't wanna do is marry anyone who puts themselves first.

[TeaLaRee]

I married my coworker/boss. We worked well together and supported each other through all kinds of challenges. We still do 17 years later but I in my role and he in his. We actually like each other as people and not just what we "give each other"...we exist together as two whole people.

[carolinemills]

It's true! We marry for love but then when it's time to get down to all the life decisions we are dumbfounded. When we divorce it's all about money and assets. So why do we avoid talking about money, debt, income, assets, investments at the frontend? But we're slammed with it inside and if we want to leave. You need lawyers! It's a business

[kv]

Was headed into the video ready to be disappointed but SO SURPRISED there are more people with similar critical thought process. Marriage is and will always be a business, not a sign of commitment of the love. If you love someone you don't need to merge assets and marry to prove that you're committed to them after all, does it? You should be able to commit without Marriage and that's real love. Marriage however has benefits that take it to the next level, just as she put it. It's about partnership, company when you get older, being able to leverage 'joint accounts' without legal hassles, etc. That's why people say, in the long run, love is not enough. You need to be able to have various skillsets to survive a marriage just like how would, if u were starting a company. And that's a commitment beyond just love.

[ninagrace-lee]

Love is an action word. Marry the person who is kind, responsible and disciplined. Marry the person who is committed to making the marriage work, no matter what. Then it’s an easy decision to CHOOSE to love them. Love them with your actions- show them everyday that they are your #1 priority.

That’s how you stay married. The second you get too comfortable, and stop showing your love every day, the marriage dies

[denisasindelarova]

This shouldbe corrected into "don't marry ONLY for love". Nobody says it should be the only criteria. But love should definitely be there. How could you marry someone you don't feel this special feeling towards, those butterflies or attraction, that something that you can't put your finger on but that other men just don't make you feel...I can't imagine being happy like that. Just using my own logic. I don't say that feeling can't change or fade overtime...I just say it must be there at least for me otherwise I wouldn't even find motivation to fight for that relationship because nobody is perfect, and sometimes you have to go put up with lots of shit in I order to make it work and in my opinion "love" makes everything possible. If it's mutual. Without it I'd probably walk away at first inconvenience. That's me.

[kbb]

True unconditional love for your partner comes with time and it’s a skill to be able to do that

[stajia]

You HAVE to have love in a marriage. But it takes a lot more than just loves to marry someone

[trudetrudy]

I love this. I now after being burrrned, i have a totally different concept now for sure. The only person I can ever love, is my blood relatives, parents, kid, etc.. Stopped loving my husband 2 years after marriage due to circumstances he caused. And now I can’t ever imagine loving anyone else but me!
But if I ever do get married, I’ll be looking for the right person for that. 😊

[mimim]

Who said you can’t have both love and a smart partnership? Trust me if you’re reading this, know that you can, most folks who have it aren’t on the internet talking about it, unfortunately for us lol. They’re busy being happy. It’s usually the negativity, broken hearts, and drama that is the loudest online and I can see how that that might make you think you have to compromise or “get real” about your desires. Don’t let yourself fall into a scarcity mindset, and don’t let others ideas of what marriage stands for dictate the way you love and live. Yes, be smart about it but also love wholeheartedly. Be a lover.

[elyse]

There is zero way I could wake up to someone every day that I don’t love.😂 my husband is my best friend, the person I admire most and still revs my motor. It’s a great life. Of course marry someone you love. Make sure they are sane and stable but definitely marry for love, among other things. Sucks growing old with a roommate who can pay bills.😂 The concept of marrying for love is definitely older than 100 years old. It’s literally in the Bible, Shakespeare, Greek mythology. Like read a book.😂

[TheDragonsProphet]

I found you today on youtube, and you are truly a blessing. I am Autistic and I find people don't explain things very well, but you explain things in a way that makes more sense. Again, thank you, you are a blessing. I watched your detachment video, and it was so eye opening, and a real boost for me. After watching the video, I feel more confident and more reassured. ❤

[Linda-uohh]

Love is like a job that you need to commit to and keep working at even in the hard times not some fantasty. Why im looking to marry my best friend who shares a similar minset and goals to build our empire

[lilyrowlett]

The key is unconditional love both given and received. Loving your partner as yourself is quite an experience. Quiet the ego. It’s not always easy, but living in love is the end result and it is amazing!