Choosing a Soulmate Over a Twin Flame

What happens when you choose to be with a Soulmate over a Twin Flame? A lot of people make this choice since the Twin Flame journey is a rough one, so in this video, I tell you five things that occur when you do in fact choose to be with a Soulmate instead of the Twin
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[shiviverma]

I have recently left the TF journey and married a soulmate. I don't know about the future but yes it is a great relief from the endless suffering, yo yoing between wanting, not wanting and then striving to not want and in your vacant hours not being able to not think, wonder or not obsess about the DM. All these involuntary and voluntary exercises only caused stagnacy and anguish. Patience apart, my own life too is important and needs to move. Finally I can breathe, plan for the furture and have a few exciting things to look forward to.

[mary-anneb]

I chose someone who choses me. I’m not going to wait around for my twin to learn his lessons with his karmic soulmate and evolve. I chose partnership with a soulmate who loves me and provides comfort over feeling like I’m in the sidelines of my twins journey. I would have chosen my twin but he’s not here.

[e.o]

I’m myself in a free-will based separation, i see that many people don’t really understand (or are not really in a TF connection ) this TF phenomenon! IT IS something really mysterious

[MariahBethea]

I left my karmic 3 year relationship for my twin who was already in a relationship when we met. I feel like I met my soulmate a few months ago and me and him are great friends. I feel he is going to be a guide in my life. It feels nice to know you’re not alone and someone to talk to. It gets lonely as the chaser if you know you know 😢

[chitramoontarot]

You are brilliant in the words that you choose. I pray that more people find you.

[alchemicalsoul]

Great video. Many ignore that soulmate is still attachment. No different than choosing other earthly treasures to experience as a human. There is no judgment in that, but it is STILL karmic, by definition action that yields more outcomes for learning.
I have decided this particular earth visit, I want ascension. It seems that inner union here is the ticket out of the earth school plane. 5D exit plan. We are all in different stages of karma. Choosing inner work, which may include a solitary, celibate path, seems to be the highest path. Doctoral degree, sage level. Senior year. Not for the squeamish.

[CoachWakeup]

I love that you combine beliefs astrology and twin flame teaching. It’s truly war with ourselves. You are God sent earth angel to help us in this painful, crazy, seemingly hopeless, yet inspiring spiritual journey ❤ SIGH

[francesthegreatest]

I want to repeat myself, You are the best. I don't have to add anything else. Thank You Alexx 💓

[jo-wkyp]

I came across your channel days ago and i would say yours is included in " One of the BEST". Very informative and helpful. Anyways, in my conclusion for this particular topic one will never achieve that complete happiness either with a karmic, soulmate and TF as long as one is not in TF union. It is a lose-lose situation. but it is not the end of the world. We just have to search for that happiness within ourselves, not from somebody else and of course from GOD, the source of true happiness. Thank you.❤❤❤❤

[the-barefoot]

Hi Alex, your channel appeared from nowhere after a meditation… I’m impressed… truly, first person ever to understand this bond deeply. I’m so happy I found you. You’re very intelligent and beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[soulbabe]

Only you can make you happy.. not a soulmate or TF... i cant stand the up and down issues. But remember.. its just the energy that you bith want qnd not the person. If your energy was in a chicken you'd be obsessed with that.
I have detached and have no want or desire for TF. I am happy with soulmates and love the stability while still working on triggers and ego mind. You can still heal with a soulmate. You dont need a TF to be ascended and out of ego. But theres nothing wrong with wanting some normality.

[stzrodzsenquiz]

After submitting to the universe and wanting to leave chaser energy, a soulmate arrived and like the last point I guess I was tired of the suffering and I found that safe feeling with her. Still, I have my TF present with me at all times, I’ve dreamt of her a thousand times and I still have the gut feeling that we will reunite soon… With that being said I feel like this soulmate arrived to teach lessons before union with the TF is finally reached. A necessary step

[Goldilox]

Thank you for the wisdom you shared today. The past 3 years finally make sense... especially when I reconnected with a soulmate this year, with no intent of trying to move on from my Twin... it just happened naturally or felt like that... anyways, what resulted was my Ego Degradation...I couldn't explain what was happening or why... I was really enjoying my soulmate... he and I are hilarious together... and truth be told, my Twin is not a humor expert lol.. and in the aftermath of the Ego Death, my Twin reached out and was going to fly out to visit me

[mjey]

I haven't dated anyone since I met my twin 7 years ago. I think about what it would be like to date someone new, but i just dont care. I'm also not a big dater as it is, and have lived most of my life single. I want peace and I like not having to always balance the needs, and expectations of other people and whats required for a "real relationship." I find it draining and a burden thinking about having to keep up with it all. In a perfect world, I would like to hug my twin. Thats all I desire in my mind. to be able to hold him again. not sure what that sesation signals but thats mainly it.

[Flufero]

This video is very informative, especially concerning soulmates. Your style resonates with me. I now have an understanding since there is a lot of "fluff" out there concerning soulmates. ( I wasn't even looking for a relationship when I met my TF. It just happened.) My intention is to stay on my spiritual journey, whether it be with my TF or alone.

[Lucida]

This information has answered my question around this. Thank you. 🙏

I have had a few soul mate relationships and you’re right it pulled me right into my ego which is why it didn’t work and I eventually have been single for about 6 years.

The last 4 years have been huge spiritual growth and I feel I have come into my Devine alignment to even go back to soul mate relationships

I definitely feel like I couldn’t go back to that.

I wasn’t clear that my DM was my twin flame until this year from October I knew we had a powerful spiritual connection and perhaps soul mates but I didn’t think much about twin flames.

I just thought it was a new age buzz word lol 😅 until now.

You know one of my soulmates wanted to came back last year and I said I definitely didn’t want to.

I had my DM in my mind and realised the closeness I had with him just didn’t compare so I let him go completely - it was at that point I realised just how deeply connected I was to my DM.

[jo-wkyp]

I just wonder many times if all those who comment on YT channels about Twinflames are true twinflanes . Even I, question it so many times if i am one. Although signs and situations show me it is, i wish sometimes i 'm not .

[graspingthewind]

Thank you! Very clear and concise. I’ve always known that there will be no other person to partner with except my twin. I can just feel it and any attempt of my ego to reach out to anyone in a possible dating way gets completely thwarted. Also making choices and decisions like where to move (away from my twin) seems to also be thwarted by this energy as though my higher self has taken the reigns completely and the only thing to do is surrender. It’s a little uncomfortable! Is this common? A feeling that you are at the will of this greater force (divine will/soul) and it intercedes in decisions and that “free will” doesn’t really play a role anymore, and actually is mostly a strata of consciousness that is primarily ego based? Sounds like the beginning of union with the true self, possibly i just haven’t fully let go completely….

[orsisabado]

Hi Alexx! As much as this video did a fantastic job of clarifying some things for those of us in a third-party relationship, it also confused me, and I may not be alone. For those of us who tried for years to get out of chaser energy, seemingly the only way to do that was to find a way to "give up" on our twin. But, somewhere between waiting patiently (which was chasing) and giving up completely (which is not allowing the union to occur), we are lost in understanding where we should be. If we "choose" our twin, it feels like we're going back to chasing, but if we give up and stop chasing, it seems we block the union energy. I realize it's a dualistic, egoic interpretation, but when we have to make choices about our lives (ie., ending a third-party relationship or not), we have no other way of making sense of it all. What does it really mean to surrender to the journey?

[bushikciwa]

I never got to date a soul mate let alone anyone, before or after meeting my twin 🤦🏽‍♂️.