How to Be Savage & Sweet

Allowing the dark feminine energy to come out and play ✨

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[SeyDizon]

I believe that my default energy before was light feminine energy, especially when it comes to my work. My work field is predominantly alpha male dominated and it was difficult for me to set boundaries whenever they joke about things that make me feel uncomfortable as I am the only woman in our group. Sometimes I tolerate their behavior thinking it's part of trying to just get along or fit in. But this weekend, my boss tested my boundaries and I am proud to say that I stood up for myself. It was hard for me at first because a part of me was questioning whether I was being disrespectful to him. In fact, it still somewhat haunts me because this is the first time I stood up for myself but I keep reminding myself that it's high time for me to put myself first. I will never allow myself to be compromised or disrespected. I can't do that to myself anymore.

[kairahere]

Roses have thorns because beautiful things need to be protected ❤ thank you for this Alexis! I needed to hear this so much. I have allowed too many to belittle me. Time to allow that dark feminine energy to come out.

[Somewhereandbeyond]

Girl that shade of red looks so good on you. You are literally glowing :)

[caitlinannegrey]

I love this for you. Be so connected to your dark feminine so that it PROTECTS your light feminine energy. 🤍

[chloedoffinghouse]

I love how you corrected the "we are way too powerful" to "we are so powerful". That was a powerful thing you did. I have binge watching you. I am obsessed with your advice! ❤

[randomlifeuser]

Your channel has changed me a lot, your energy, your work, your entire life is proof that God exists, and everything you say is so guided, blessed, and so clear to me, eternal gratitude for that, you helped me heal so many things and it still helps me raise my level, thank you, I love you, watching you from Brazil, lots of love and light. 🌹🇧🇷✨🕉️

[habibanoor]

Journal Prompt shared in video is below:

1. What side of me keeps trying to come out, but I am not allowing her?

2. If there were no rules to life what would my personality look like? How would I treat people if I wasn't nervous or anxious to be a certain way?
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[mahletg.]

Babes, I used to be terrified of childbirth as well, until I learned about orgasmic and euphoric births! From what I have read, the women who experience these types of euphoric births completely change their mindsets+have relaxing environments (not hospitals)!

Now, I’m excited to give birth! Especially with feminine energy, nervous system, and womb healing, I truly believe birth can be euphoric for any woman!

[freesegye]

Ok now i decide i do not allow disrespect for me.
You dont mess with ME!
I am going through an issue with someone disrespecting me. I was very annoyed but i kept my 'bad-mannered, graceless' self under cover cuz i was afraid of speaking up. But i will practice with dark femeinine energy.
You dont mess with me!!

[tam_to_evolve]

I love your authenticity Alexis! Especially with your story about crediting your account! I enjoyed that story and what a great example

[SinginBird]

You've made me realize so much about my life. Back when I was a teenager, I would have hated you and been jealous and confused because I was so convinced I needed to be masculine. My mom and my sister pushed that narrative on me to be the man even though I was a little girl. I had to be masculine. I wasn't safe to be feminine, let alone be girly or like girly things. It's not hitting me until now but the other day I told my bf how rom coms are my guilty pleasure but now it's dawning on me that I only felt guilty because I thought I had to be a tom boy I couldn't like girly things. For the first time in my life I accepted that I'm a girl, that I'm allowed to like things a girl likes. Looking at you makes me see myself in you. Thank you for being giggly and bubbily because I'm no longer ashamed of that part of myself.

[ZaniahSlayed]

I absolutely love when you reference GTA. It makes me so happy inside. 😂❤

[kb_]

The way you explained the concept of ripping the band aid off makes so much sense. When you put it like that speaking up for yourself doesn’t seem like a scary task and almost comes naturally to you.
I’m so grateful for this video, just last night I was pondering upon dark feminine energy.

[laurianebolmont]

« Band aid off, Savage out! » is gonna be my new mantra I love it!

[SH-eycx]

Queen can you do a video with examples of dark feminine things to say in uncomfortable situations ( ie disrespect at work, on a date, between new acquaintances, and how to set the dark feminine boundary with ppl we may have let slide in the past) 🩷🩷

[TheFishFreak]

I have a long story that involves an animal rescue. A pitty mix was injured & terrified in a school feild. I happened to notice her, called the humane society. They informed me that the dogs been loose for 4hrs, they gave up. And will send someone out in the morning. I felt so bad for this dog. She didnt have any water that entire time. I ran home, grabbed water and cheese haha. Placed the water far away from me. Then sat down & waited with a leash. Tossed her some cheese. She ate, which was a good sign. If a dogs distressed or hyper focused on something they will refuse food.

I sat with this dog, camly, giving her lots of space because she was terrified and would sprint towards the road if she was scared. I had to be extremely patient. After 30 minutes she started trusting me. She'd walk closer and not sprint. I sat on the ground and let her decide what she wanted. 2 woman jump out of a vehicle and start jogging towards her, they had her in a corner against the baseball diamand fencing. This scared polite dog began growling very loud, barking and snapping & lunging at these women. Tail still between her legs. She's reacting from fear. Uusually wouldnt have said anything. I created this level of trust with this dog and if someone betrayed it. She would never trust me again to leash her. I tapped into the Dark Feminine, which is foreign to me. I told the women that they need to stop because that dog that had shown zero signs of aggression and now is in a defensive aggressive state, that dog can choose to stay and attack someone or bolt to the street. If the dog was gonng get hurt, it would be their fault. I never swore. I never belittled. Very assertively insisted they respect that dogs space. The mother of that women stopped. The other did not. I stood up, walked in front of the dog and told her she needs to respect that dogs boundaries if she wants to help. This women actually had a tantrum, screamed at me, called me names. Usually I would have been triggered and engaged in an argument. I was so focused on not having negative energy around that dog, I told her she is acting very immature for her age. She walked away. This scared dog actually started following me, and I was able to safely catch her. It amazes me that with my usual mindset of being defensive or mirror that persons behaviour... it didnt happen. I tapped into this confident motherly dark feminine energy. I never felt so powerful, and assertive before. I did it in such a respectful way, while also allowing my point across. Dogs are energy wizards, they feel everything. I felt honored that the dog felt so safe with me, being a temporary pack leader. I was able to leash her because of the trust I earned with her.

That dark feminine. She only appears when I feel the need to protect someone or an animal... it's rare that I stand up for myself. I know that assertive, powerful woman is hiding... I find it such a challenge to find it when I need it. 🌸 🖤 ❤


In case people are curious about the dogs happy ending. She was reunited with a very happy owner. The owner lived out of town, the dog escaped a sitters yard. I seen a completely different side. The dog was crying and tail wipping around, doing zoomies. ❤

[catcatcat]

GUURRLL, I am naturally dark feminine. I find I often make friends with naturally light feminine women, and the more we hang out the more they start speaking up for themselves and I LOVE IT. I love watching my light-feminine girlies switch on bitch-mode when they need to!! And on the flip-side I try to learn from them how to be more light-hearted! HAHA.

[zelphayue]

Hey Alexis, the outfit and the lipstick was just 🔥 Loved it!

"What side of me keeps trying to come out and I'm not allowing her?" This was such a good prompt. It would be great if you give such relevant inner work prompts for all your videos cause that just makes it so easy to get to the root of the problem. Thank you ❤

[thewalkers]

You are so amazing, I have a terrible problem with shutting down my shadow self and never speaking up for myself

[saracarlson-kringle]

TV series have never been a 'thing' with me, and still aren't BUT...I came across some episodes of 'Cashmere Mafia' on youtube [just season one, the first 4 or 5 episodes] and could not walk away. The whole premise is not me - however, how the main female characters deal with situations is so interesting to me now that I know about the dark and light feminine energies. That cool, bold, direct energy is what has me hooked, I think. I like seeing it in action. I like how it's delivered.