DOES body count MATTER?

[TicePatricia]

I love what you're putting out there. You're absolutely right.

Your relationship with a man will continue to grow spiritually and emotionally as long as sex is off the table. When you go there, it just stops dead in its tracks. When a guy is addicted to your body, that addiction can't last. Your body is not going to get better forever over time--You will be 80 at some point and there are no pilates routines or surgery that will make up for time. Your eternal spirit will. If he gets addicted to you, as a person, you will constantly be changing: a new and hopefully better person every day. That gives room to grow together over a lifetime, but if you get his lust before you get his commitment, you'll miss out on his heart. What we all want at the end of our lives is someone who knows us, inside and out. You are a garden to be explored by someone who will stop to smell the roses and tend it carefully, not a highway to be walked over by everyone.

[arzen]

I agree Sapphire. Too many non-virgins in these western societal countries. I ain't going to deal with that for marriage.

[vernongandy]

I think women pick up some DNA and illness from many partners. The thought of being a walking sperm bank equals freedom has always confused me.

[George-uxzz]

I saw a guy interview several women what their body count is. It ranged between 5-50 men. The last was celebrating her 21st birthday, she already slept with 300+ men. Who is going to want her? She has almost no chance of a lasting relationship and she'll likely cheat early and often.

[strew]

Body count absolutely matters and it matters for both. Its different when the body count is high because women seem to be more forgiving depending on their own body count then men and men seem to be just as selective as a godly man but when the body count is low theyre equally extremely selective. Most men want a woman who is saving herself for marriage but a woman saving herself for marriage wouldnt want a man who didnt. Its equal at that point because a woman with that mindset will have similar disqualifier set in place like men do for body count where they might tolerate a certain number in exchange for other positive traits but after that number exceeds, its a immediate turn off no matter how positive the other triats are.

[up.Airwhonkey]

It’s literally the opposite it’s harder for a man

[Me-ebwv]

Ask women if a woman’s body count matters and they will say it doesn’t, but if you ask them if a man’s body count matter now you will hear them say yes 😂

[wallacewallets]

the TRUTH matters!!

if she's honest about her past with her partner that's gonna be way better than him finding out on his own..

but this is why these women wanna claim "celibate" now to "average out the body count"

[cryptocsguy]

I used to think women's body count mattered until I heard so many men crying about being in sexless marriages 😢. After that I realised women's body count still matters but that higher isn't bad

[angelpedro]

I would not be embarrassed with my body count and it's way over 10, but hears the best part, I don't give a f*** what anyone thinks. You don't like it leave. Bye 👋