When Your Ex Realizes The Breakup Was A Mistake

What Are Breakups Really?

- Commitment Factor
- Satisfaction
- Alternatives
- Investment

Breakups are usually nothing more than one party admitting they think they can do better than you.

There's an element of the grass is greener syndrome involved.

How Do You Make Them Realize It Was A Mistake?

- They actually need to experience things themselves (The Time Factor)
- Regret
- There's an element of opportunity cost involved,

The loss of potential gain from other alternatives when one alternative is chosen.

- Something needs to be different

When Will An Ex Realize They Made A Mistake?

- It's different for everyone.
- To illustrate this I viewed an article by Mens Health about why men regretted breaking up with their exes,

[aroojaziz]

My ex told me that I was his world, but after sometime I realised that he was creating a solar system & I was 4th planet in it ✌🏼😇

[neressakotas]

I am really so happy that he has gone. I don't want the relationship anymore. I have no intentions of having him back, I am not going to want a man that cheated on me

[masternobin]

They coming back to you, it's not about you.. it's about them.. they are feeling very low because the orher guy/girl didn't wanted them, so they come back to you as a backup plan

[sammonsterenergy]

It’s been 5 weeks since I last heard from my ex and despite I finally agreed I was free to meet..she’s started questioning my motives even thou I told her I don’t want anything just hangout...kept overcoming her tests..she kept pushing back and making it difficult to agree to a day...she then said best to leave it be & admitted she was being short and kinda rude...saying didn’t understand why I took so long to reply...when she previously left me on read for 2 weeks! So I just left her be...I miss her everyday but feel she needs time to heal and enjoy being on her own...

[StarsStars]

I really love the way you broke that down. Thanks so much.

[Winzigx]

So now i can tell you about my story, I have been watching your videos since I broke up, 4 months have passed, I stopped following his activity, I have shared in a spirit how I have fun on trips, I made a few certificates, I became a photo model and suddenly messages from nowhere, my ex started asking me questions that he knows the answers to and proposes to discuss our relationship at the meeting

[jacqueline]

Your ex recovery quiz said i was unlikely to get back with my ex and i'm still grasping for answers these videos :(

[abuseinterrupted]

You can break up with someone because you aren't compatible, as much as you care about each other. It isn't whether you can 'get someone better', it's whether you can be partners to each other.

[TheKickasskatie]

I broke up with him, but it was basically because I felt single anyway. He was giving zero effort. So I'm treating this as him breaking it off and going no contact. It's been almost 2 weeks, but I reacted to some bait texts today 😕. Should I just jump back into no contact?

[cuteandfluffypikachu]

My ex is still doing the same living at home with his parents and gaming everyday not even entered rebound yet after 3 weeks. I’ve kept a diary of no contact 😊😊

[blackbarbie]

I broke up with my boyfriend, and he wanted to stay friends, he called me and texted me, but now he is ignoring me????

[lovehope]

Would it still be considered a rebound if our relationship ended 6 months ago? Also, my ex started dating random people only a month after our breakup; however, I think he’s become serious with someone recently within the past month. We were together for 15 months and lived together for 10. He’s a DA and I’m an AP. I had major trust issues from past relationships that I brought into ours and from his DA behavior it caused spurts of anger and rage at times in me because even though he did so many loving things to make me happy and to show me his love, he never said those three words during our 15 month relationship, which began to cause resentment and anger in me. However, I now realize my actions did nothing but push him even further away. I would love to hear your thoughts, Chris, but I’m open to anyone’s opinion on this forum. Thank you.