Our Daughter Is Turning 18 **VERY EMOTIONAL**

On this episode of New World Old Soul, Melissa and Jeremy share a highly emotional conversation with their daughter Nevaeh. The family members reflect and discuss the upcoming impact of Nevaeh's turning 18 and moving out of their family's home.

[henrypinkham]

I think Nevaeh is very mature and levelheaded for her age, which is really refreshing, and is evidence of good parenting.

[gemigirl]

You did a fantastic job raising Nevaeh.

[sarahpage]

Don't worry Jeremy you have given your kids the best foundation for adulting and no matter what they do you will always be their no 1 protector and safe place x

[jessicaj]

I understand the emotions you are feeling. My son turned 19 on the 3rd and graduated high school (homeschooled) last May. He is living at home and working full time but even though a lot of things aren’t different the reality is he’s an adult and time marches on. God bless Nevaeh and her future.

[elesixestepa]

My kid was a mini me but once she hit 14, we were in constant battle but I persisted and persevered. Today she says “Mom you were right” and is a good trad mom. Oh and we’re best friends again. Seeing them excel is what makes it all worthwhile. ♥

[lesliemangold]

I think it's time for her to go out and spread her wings. There's a lot of living to do out there in the world. Do it now because you can never go back and do or see what you missed...

[nancystevens]

I wish my dad spoke so lovingly to me good parents!

[lillylem]

Jeremy, you will always be Dad, and no matter how old your girls are, you will always be protective. That will never change. Melissa, the same goes for the boys. It will only get better. ❤

[elainetrindle]

Yeah, I enjoy watching her videos and I’m 77 years old. She does a great job.

[fredgrunder]

One thing that stood out to me was you did not mention the MILITARY as an option to get a start in a career. I am 77, a Vietnam vet, and young people ask me about the military. My advice now is DO NOT do it. I don't think our leaders care about who's life is on the line with what they do. Nevaeh, you have a good head for what your plans are and what needs to be done to get there. You had your DAD all confused, girl stuff, it is like walking through a mine field. You have a GREAT family and one that LOVES you. Happy 18, but it is only a number, based on how far we are from the SUN. Enjoy as many of them as you can.

[jacquelinemorris]

Blessed birthday young lady. It has been a pleasure to watch you and your siblings mature in front of our eyes. I pray that the Lord will guide your foot step. I pray He gives you your heart desires as you step into adulthood. I pray you will always be protected and shield from all harm. I pray as you grow and mature, you will find a man of God and a godly man for your life partner. Enjoy your young adulthood, and as you grow, I pray for wisdom to guide you.
Lots of love from Jackie in Florida

[nmdispatchlady]

The only thing I can give you as a parent who has been there 3 times. Trust and have faith in the way you have raised them and the values you have instilled in them. You HAVE done your job, and there are still going to be those time when they need your advise and shoulder. My youngest is 35 and she and her daughter have moved back home. You want to talk about an adjustment. I don't have a separate home for them and had to build an addition so that we didn't kill one another living on top of one another. They have been here almost 8 years and we are still changing how we relate especially now that my granddaughter is a teen.

Instead of focusing on how she MIGHT have issues, be proud of who she is. From what I can see she is a very put together young lady who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to work to get it. God Bless and HAPPY BIRTHDAY Nevaeh.

[triciaesham]

watched this with my husband and soon to be 18 year old twins. Great advice. You had us all crying. Happy Birthday to Jeremy, Nevaeh and Kira. Great advice--love the honesty. Our boys would say the same to us about what we could do better. lol. God Bless you all. I look forward to your podcasts and Saturday episodes like I do any of my favorite shows. HUGS

[richardbrunk]

Jeremy your love for your children is so refreshing to see. Too many parents say you are 18 good-bye . Go find your way in the world. God is good. He will bless you for your love and care of your family of 6. Love watching to see what will be next. Love your family . Kathy

[RoseWright-msop]

Follow your heart and everything else will fall into place. Enjoy your Birthday Nevaeh.

[lesliekwan]

A very happy 18th birthday Naveah. You are far wiser for your age so yes mom and dad did a great job raising you. Love you all. God bless

[kzoll]

Nevaeh, you are a bright and beautiful young lady whose parents love you. I had loving parents too, and I miss them very very much. Enjoy your life, take one day at a time, and let the future worry about itself. I wish you nothing but success in whatever you pursue. God bless you and keep you in His tender loving care. Happy 18th Birthday 🎊 🎉

[SallyMickley]

I love Nevaeh’s channel. I wish her the very best and I’m sure she will make great choices and she will be safe because she seems to have good instincts. May the world be your oyster❤️

[cindymoss]

Jeremy it's all good. I bawled when my son moved out and moved from Iowa to Washington. They need that time away to find themselves.

[shelliregnier]

Happiest of birthdays to you! Go explore the world around you now while you don't have kids. You guys have done a fabulous job raising your kids. Thanks for sharing! God bless you all!