The Narcissist's #1 Ultimate Downfall

In today's video, you will learn the number one ultimate downfall of narcissists far and wide. This is more important than anything else that you may have seen or read on the topic and has the most potential to bring the narcissist to their knees in an ultimate defeat.

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Kim Saeed is a best-selling author and renowned coach who lives in Virginia. In the past 10 years, she has conducted thousands of coaching sessions and offered consulting to therapists and mental health professionals on the topic of narcissism. She specializes in relationships, breakups, and narcissistic personalities.

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This video does not substitute professional medical advice, and no doctor-patient relationship is formed through the video.

[LibertyB]

Yes and we need to shift the paradigm because we truly don’t attract narcissists for being who we are- narcissists are everywhere now and more cunning than ever.

[karennarron]

I've known two. And they contacted me. Why I've always wondered. I'm a caring person. I now know what to look for.

[chxwv]

I think once they have realized that you have figured them out, they don’t Hoover

[chxwv]

When I look back, I find a very disturbing fact, they reinforced my bad behaviors/traits, that were actually interfering with my progress in life, and since I valued her I took her input to further convince myself that sone of those traits were actually positive . I don’t know if it makes sense what I’m saying to another person ? Another thing Kim, I would like you to make a video on is how they appear on phone when they are talking to someone on phone, while you are around them . Second how they behave when you are on phone with them and they receive a third person incoming call . Third, how they act after they hang up. I would be very interested in a video on this, as I have observed some very peculiar things around their behavior involving phone calls, during my 20 plus years with a covert narcissist, that at the time made me feel very uncomfortable inside, but as usual I ignored my inner reactions, however, now I understand why I felt that way, because those behaviors were actually red flags

[Truth-matters-vz]

I wanted to divorce this man at 10, 12, 15, 20 years and he always talked me out of it by saying “I’m not going to throw this all away”. Then out of nowhere at 27 years he instantly threw me away like trash and like the aging narcissist he is, he already had a much younger woman lined up who he met through his cult, she was also married at the time, how very spiritual of them

[Truth-matters-vz]

Oh and he told me when I asked what actually attracted you to me other than my legs and he responded your empathy 🤯

[dubaiedge]

We can't walk in the neighborhood without bumping into a narcissist or two?

HOW COMMON IS THIS? Holy crap, that would explain so, so much that's going on in this over 55+ community 😅

[terriwhalen]

So true! I have had my share of romantic narcissist relationships and thankfully now know the red flags. What caught me off guard recently was a lady friend whom I don't know well but every single time we spoke on phone she hijacked the conversation, gossiping about her other friends, her patient, she is a live in nurse, everything negative. She wanted to move in to share expenses if the current patient let her go. I didn't commit. I had never had an acquaintance such as this and she would text and call numerous times a day and night. Before I realized what she was truly about, I ended up being there for her and emphasized with her. I became her sounding board overnight! The next thing, and I did my best to try to talk her out of sending me anything, unfortunately she caught me off guard and I we swapped addresses, the large amount of groceries arrived, clothes, ect. I am currently healing from eye surgery and she knew this hence the reason I was so available to her. I appreciate what she did but feel uncomfortable with it all! I sent her a thank you plans arrangement and she said she didn't like it. Long story longer, all the above happened within a 3 week period and thankfully I never allowed her to get by with her controlling and gaslighting towards me. I feel she finally got the idea, I was not a good supply! She stopped calling and texting and I am thankful the way I set my boundaries and held my ground. Here is the thing, I know she feels I am now indebted to her and I can't help she chose to go against my wishes. Point is, had I not gone through my past experiences, wow, I would have messed up. People please beware, not just love relationships, can be anyone and I had no idea. B3 careful. I am praying for anyone experiencing this toxicity. Thanks for listening!

[jocelyndambrosio]

Perfect advice !!!! And absolutely true !!! ❤❤❤

[garycordle]

Their afraid of you figuring out their dirty little secret NPD and leaving them alone and going no contact and their little toy has escaped off their shelf, don't worry they have secondary resource they go from person to person same old game just a different person 👍 Kim thanks for the video 🦋🙏

[joanbaczek]

He made me like myself by being so nice to me and always wanting to talk and visit me. There was no dinners or real dates that should have been a red flag. Then he started insulting me as soon as he was moving in claiming his cousin was kicking him out. The criticism hurt cuz I felt bad about myself and felt better only cuz he accepted me. I felt like such a fool being tricked like that. I never felt beautiful so how can I feel beautiful after?

[khaartoumsings]

Interesting re-labelling the language to clarify these toxic scenarios

[romansepiol]

My narcissist discard me 3rd time ❤️
Sad but true . I think this is final discard
💔. Please for advice

[bradmcewen]

All thats missing from the narcopaths mind molding is the tubes and wires you would see in a scary sci fi movie. I never liked those movies. Turns out there is real life coding too. It seems to have become a venture of entertainment, for profit and for absolute control regardless of ability to deliver.

[geotyr]

in the case of a narc parent how should we approach this?