Why it seems like some narcissists never grow up undefined

Why it seems like some narcissists never grow up

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[susannej]

"Anger is easy." Thank you for saying that. I needed to hear it

[thecalmingspace]

This is so insightful. Thank you. I think people who are prone to attracting narsassitic people have also skipped emotional stages. Perhaps they feel they have to be emotional martyrs forsaking their own needs because they're environment was all about pleasing everyone else around them.

[TiffanyFusini]

You are very interesting and informative. And I'm so glad to see human beings who are diagnosed as Narcissist explaining the how's and why's. There is so much stigma around it and childhood abuse is so traumatic that I love to see people like yourself healing AND helping others.

[mrdee]

Yup. My ex is very emotionally childish. I still feel sorry for her. It ruined a lot.

[codeman]

Can confirm. Being brave enough to be vulnerable and let go of wanting to have everything under control was a big growth step. Felt like I grew a few inches or something.

[mollykeady]

Thank you Lee. I hope this gives a healthy sense of pride and value to know you are truly helping and healing. I know it’s hard but you’ve been incredibly brave in your journey.

[SylentStar]

OMG!!! This is sooo true I always say he is still a teenage boy stuck in the basement (his room) The temper tantrums and silent treatment and saying something slick the walking off or mumbling under his breath like a child instead of expressing himself. Down to saying I can't do simple things like saying good morning and good night because he didn't say it as a child, so it is ok. Communicating worse than our 6 y/o only expressing themself through anger when you bring something to their attention to take the blame off them and say in any way possible you did wrong too we are both wrong. 100% childlike aggression and pettiness.

[syebethel]

Often it is overlooked how the neglect of a parent affects the future of a grown narcissist. I've seen this phenomenon in a few narcissists I've been close to. It seems to shape decisions they make, lead to self-harm (poor eating habits when better choices are available, risky sexual behaviour, etc), addictions, and anger(!). I've seen that narc rage- apart from scary, it's senseless.

[kathurtado]

That's me, I have been on "survival mode" since I was an infant

[chellotrevino]

You guys are PSYCHOLOGICALLY STUNTED DR RAMANI WORDS ❤

[butterflysa]

You are amazing Lee. Thank you for your videos and the time that you put into them. You have helped with my healing journey so much ❤ stay blessed 🎉

[Prometheuspredator]

I agree, Lee. Arrested development can also be developed in another form as in coddling, enabling, and resuing by parents and others and this causes delays in their emotional maturity and managing life. "Spoiling them" This begins in childhood and impacts developing maturity in all facets, especially avoiding emotional stages. This promotes the aspect of "Escaping Reality" and causes stunted and delayed emotional development. The development of emotional milestones. Now, you as a person can not remove life barriers as in their youth and on ward, and because you can't there is anger, "Rage Out", targeting and projection on others, verbal abuse, bullying, threats of physical assault and being physical assaulted. This is targeted on those in their inner circle. They do not and "Refuse" to accept responsibility and accountability for their actions. No appolgy and when they do it is just talk and no sincerity as their is no attempt to want to address and change their behavoir. They still want to stay in this course of action as it is convient and comfortable for them and means no changing, eventhough therapy is available they do not want to get it. This drives people away, especially those in their inner circle and it drives them away. They want to escape and avoid, due to the emotional impact. It is affects their emotional development and causes them to be "Stunted" emotionally and the inability to move forward.

[susansimon]

"I tend to push these away as I feel uncomfortable". Have observed this.

[kristin]

I wonder if my ex has this problem or he's just enabled by his mother and new girlfriend to remain stunted. His mom got him a job printing t-shirts for her friend at 16 years old. He earned an AA & BA with the help of his grandma paying tuition and me taking 2 of his online classes so he could finally pass (He had me so brainwashed). We had 3 kids. When we split, he got the house and sold it to pay cash for a $90k Lexus but he's still printing t-shirts at the same shop, making barely enough to cover half his girlfriend's rent so he can stay in her home after his mom kicked him out. Like, how do you get to 38 years old and you still have nothing but hope your mom dies and leaves you her house and life insurance? Cuz the kids tell me that's his retirement plan 😭

[KimberlyGray-cdlt]

The psychologist that work with NARCS says NARC cannot be helped no matter how long they go to therapy but people forgot God is still in the Healing Business ❤Stay Prayed Up

[therosaliereeves]

Thank you for explaining from your perspective 🙏

[danitaoliver]

❤ Can you make a Longer Video on this Lee n Your experience with this, n How you've Made Progress toward Healthier Connections, n Attachments

[Prometheuspredator]

Lee, I hope you had a wonderful birthday. You are working on you for yourself, your wife, and especially for your children. I am proud of you as you know most narcissists refuse to work on themselves and their issues. You are coming full circle. When you begin to experience difficulities and episodes, please step back and think about your family, and especially your kids as you know this is tramatizing for them and it affects their life. What you feel everyone experiences these type of feelings of vulnerability. It is difficult, but you are rising to the occassion. You are getting in touch with your inner child as we all do this, but as we get in touch with these emotions and mature as in life we grow in a positive nature. When you love yourself you love others. Love you for how much you have progressed. When you get in touch with your true self, you experience empathy and emotional vulnerability for others. As you work on you and grow in therapy and loving yourself, and being in your true person you are coming full circle.

[meme]

Narcissists can experience luv? That’s new. I read it’s superficial and fleeting for narcs.

[ondreagreen]

Most narcissistic people are too lazy to do the work.That's why they don't have.You are an exceptional world