Chances of Getting Your Ex Back - 5 Signs You Have a Chance

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If you’re wondering if you still have a chance of getting your ex back, there are a lot of things you could be looking out for.

Most of them are things that people arbitrarily decide are important, but actually aren’t. Once such example is who is initiating contact more.

This ultimately doesn’t even matter when it comes to signs your ex wants you back because you and your ex aren’t going to get back together because someone is contacting the other more often.

You are going to get back together if your interactions feel good on an emotional level. That’s it. End of story.

And who is contacting who is an action, but it says nothing about what the emotional impact of that action may be. It makes no difference if your ex is contacting you all the time if every time you interact, it drives the two of you further apart.

So, if you really want to know the odds of getting back together or if couples get back together after a breakup at all, then you don’t need to look at a list of random clues and hints.

You just need to look at whether or not your ex and you are enjoying yourselves as you interact with one another.

If the emotional connection is strong and improving, then that is the only sign you need to look for.

At this point, people will ask me how do they know if they are having a positive interaction with their ex or not?

And the answer is that the two of you are actually opening up and becoming more honest with one another about your thoughts and feelings.

So often we hide how we truly feel to try to look cool or try to seem as if we care less than we really do, but that is nothing more than a mask that conceals the truth.

And the truth is showing how you really feel is going to bring you and your ex much closer than trying to hide how you feel and putting on an act.

So, be okay showing how you feel, and if you can do that, then that is one of the biggest signs that you have a chance of getting back together with you r ex.
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I know we had something special
We have too get back together man
There's just something there between us
We loved each other so much man

Mr.Stines
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I'm gonna work on myself and see what happens

kingjames
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Even though this is an older video, it hit my feed at just the right time. Riding the dragon, if you will, is not for the weak at heart. Tough weekend of filling in gaps with my own negative thoughts on top of not feeling well physically made me almost want to give up. I’m going to step back today and get my head right, and then get back out there. Working on building a bridge so that I can walk the path with someone I really love. I still believe. Just tired today.

saraholland
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if he actually tells me not to contact him and that he is not interested I don't think I would try harder. I don't want a restraining order lol

lauramci
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i believe i can get back together with my ex.

jangotherango
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Man I’m currently talking with my ex and by all things considered it’s going well, it’s just so stressful lol. All I wanna do is tell her how I still feel about her but I’m trying to focus on building up a connection. Your videos definitely are helping a lot.

admiralfishface
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this is a great video and best point of view about getting back with an ex.I just love it. You are totally right and an awesome advisor in this matter.

lucianestor
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2 weeks since she broke with me. No contact. But she unblocked me on facebook. That's one good thing

shaungaming
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Your videos have really helped me because they're a lot more positive than a lot of the other "ex back" B.S. people. Also I really like how you don't talk about manipulation. You just talk about feelings and bettering yourself first and emotionally connecting. I've been wide away in bed at 3 AM crying my eyes out over this breakup and I feel better and more positive after watching one or two of your videos.

hads
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Excellent information thanks so much!!!

lvncsr
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I believe in faith I’ll get her back because we had something very special. She still contacts me and checks in on me. I know I’ll get her back i believe.

JT
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I think this guy is telling people what they want to hear. Nothing can be guaranteed and it all depends on the people. When me and my ex spilt, I was the one that initiated the split. After a few months I realized I made a mistake. I had lost weight, cleaned myself up, went through with my plans to start a business and so one. I was a better man than when we broke up. But it still depends on the person

bryerTuck
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Going through a really tough time...2.5 years down the drain but we still live together and have a dog. Feels like hell. Your videos help.

OedipusDex
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Bro, you're are 150% on point wit me on this Exactly what I'm going through and she has a rebound that she admits on numerous occasions he is that. Her hot and cold spells, well last night we talked all night, moving in,  getting married and kids. Then today, nothing. It happened six days ago and it's been like this ever since. The communication has def. picked up. And let me just say, this is mostly my fault, I have admitted to them and they are ALL very fixable. And one thing my girl knows about me is that I absolutely don't make promises I know I cant

jayreineck
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+Relationship Inner Game I was wondering if you could help me. I'm 14 and I broke up with my boyfriend about 7 weeks ago. We had a massive argument that lasted like 3 weeks but we made up. Then I told him that I might ask to move forms...then he started having a go at me saying things like "Fine go on then! Move!" then the argument ended and I said to him "should I move forms?" and he said "its not up to me" I then said "what if it was" he said "i would say don't move." Idk if he still has feelings for me or what...please help me?!

fairlylocaldreamer
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This -- -- is amazingly wonderful advice and such great info ... and it's my favorite video (by a landslide) from you, Clay!!! WOWWWW. Between all of the boxes from the list in this video being checked in our case ... and me doing my own internal work as well as improving myself physically, mentally/emotionally & spiritually over the past several months, I AM SO GRATEFUL to know he & I are reconciling very soon!!! I know it to be true ... and I have no doubt!!! I believe it!!! I am personally in alignment and I am manifesting it now!!! This is coming from a place of abundance & gratitude!!! It will happen exactly when it's supposed to -- in Divine, perfect timing!!! I'm SO STOKED!!! Thank you so very much. 🙏💙🍀🙏💜🍀🙏💙🍀🙏💜🍀

KMM
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Thank you so much Clay. Every time I'm struggling I watch one of your videos and feel better afterwards. You always find the right words. My ex is my dream guy and I wanna get him back - we're still on good terms and he said himself that we were a good match, we just over complicated things. So I strongly believe that we will have another and better chance in the future somehow.

lisainkognitus
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I love this youtuber he has a good advice

raghadabdulaziz
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Hi Clay Andrews, do you think I still have a change with my ex after a bad break up. When she clean got on total no contact untill this day for 5 weeks and she started looking for a date with a new guy only 3 days after the break up and after 5 weeks had the first succesfull date which I happened to find out when I bumped into her kissing another guy in his car and then driving to somewhere else to probably get sex? This happened after a 2 year relationship in which the last two months were not ideal?

karelklumpers
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He told me he thinks about me all the time and miss me to but he said that he thinks he starting to care for this other person that he only know for few days and its only be 6 days sence the break up he started a new job and doesnt get to spend time together he told me that she keeps trying to get him to come over to her house but he holds back whats that mean for me

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