Neuroscientist: How Men Choose Their Partner | Andrew Huberman #flagrant #neuroscience #shorts

Neuroscientist: What Women Actually Want | Andrew Huberman #neuroscience #shorts #hubermanlab #lifestyle #science #tips #love #relationship #mindset #andrewschulz #flagrant

Andrew D. Huberman (born September 26, 1975 in Palo Alto, California) is an American neuroscientist and tenured associate professor in the Department of Neurobiology at the Stanford University School of Medicine who has made contributions to the brain development, brain plasticity, and neural regeneration and repair fields.

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[Weewoo]

Insecurity kills relationships, wether it comes from the man’s side or woman’s 😢

[alegria]

We settle at the level of our self-esteem.

[dantepatel]

This is so true.... One of my greatest regrets in life is rejecting the girl I liked the most. She was extremely beautiful and sweet and also obsessed with me. But the closer we got, the more I felt this crazy overwhelming pressure. I wanted to make her happy more than anything- I just couldn't believe that I could make her happy enough. All my insecurities were just cranked to 11 and I couldn't handle it. I found it hard to believe that she could ever want me (over other guys) if she knew the real me and saw all the confidence I was showing was just a facade. I didn't have any money whatsoever (came from a poor background) and I didn't feel like I was attractive enough either lol.

It never really occurred to me that I might've hurt her feelings in the process of rejecting her. Tbh, I thought it was just best for her cuz she could easily find another guy that could likely make her happier. Thinking back on it though, I think what made her want me was the fact that I wanted to make her happy more than anything- and perhaps that actually would've made me the ideal partner for her. I really should've been more confident, because while I'm not perfect, I'm still pretty awesome in my own right. I just wish I could've thought like this years ago... Lol

Pro tip: if you ever have extremely strong feelings for a girl, let her know and embrace it. Don't be scared. It's better to live life without regrets.

PS: Feel free to check out my music.... I like to think it's really good.

[GigiHabibi]

Virtue. Dignity. Honor. Charisma. Intelligence. Fortitude. That’s my scale.

[heatherberry]

That’s why I don’t have sex till there’s observed commitment, trust, and respect. I hold myself to a high standard. I hold my partner in the same light.

[bestrongandloveyourself]

I met a lot of beautiful, loyal and kind women rejected by men, now I know the reason. Thank you! 🥰

[ojos]

I know this woman who is so beautiful inside out. She's isn't a flirt. I noticed that most guys are terrified of asking her out or making any moves bc they find her attractive. She's single and confessed that she has a very hard time finding a partner

[sandgroper]

I rate my bf as a 10. He rates himself as a 5. He rates me as a 10 and I rate myself as 5. We both think that the other is the most attractive person in the room and that we are the luckiest person ever. So technically how we see ourselves and each other are the same

[goread]

Unless that man is a narcissist - they punch waaaay above their weight & then proceed to destroy that woman’s self-esteem with their method of choice to keep her.

[tauraaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa]

Id rather be single forever than marry someone who is settling for me.

[thought]

This is true for women as well. I know a lot of women who won’t date a gorgeous guy that gets constant attention from women. You have to be very secure in yourself to date and commit to a really attractive person that gets constant attention. It’s not fun to have your comparisons, jealousy, and trust in your relationship constantly poked at everywhere you go. & In all your partners DMs.

[Igniteyourownpotential]

Men and women date at the level of confidence they have within themselves.

[rrj]

So a man will date an attractive woman that treats him very well but because of his insecurities he will marry someone less attractive so he doesn’t have to worry about other men wanting her? Sad

[farhanagani]

Is this why I get called a liar and a ho when I tell guys I’m a virgin and almost 30? Most men I meet call me a liar because they don’t think it makes sense for me to be a virgin because of my looks…but that logic doesn’t make sense to me.

My personality and character came first. I worked on those for 23 years of my life. I didn’t become attractive so to speak until I lost weight (I was morbidly obese). I’ve only looked like this for the last 6 years and it’s sad because men just assume the worst.

Tired of feeling like a challenge and being tested by men who don’t believe me. YOU will fail, you are not anything special in comparison to the last guy who tried. At the end you just waste time trying to get something I won’t give you and then complain because your ego is hurt. I don’t care.

If you look at a women and think “she’s really attractive, she must be ran through, she must be a ho”…then that says more about your own personal insecurities and ego, than her character.

I guess in a way I know I’m attractive to men (not in a vain way, more like it’s been pointed out to me when I think I’m getting attention for being ugly😬). What I am not is cheap, a challenge or a sex doll. I’m a whole human being!

When I was obese I was too ugly to be with…now I’ve lost weight I’m an attractive ho, who gets with everyone…you can’t win in this society.

Funny thing is I don’t deem myself as someone who is really attractive. When I get stared at I feel insecure, I think people are judging me, or thinking “she still looks gross”…it’s not until someone else points out that the reason for the attention is the opposite of what I am thinking.

We still out here judging people for their looks. I’ve learned it doesn’t matter what I look like, people always assume the worst. My looks may change on the outside but I’m still the same smart, loving, caring, kind and goofy person on the inside and I’m okay living with myself 💯

I feel sorry for anyone who goes through life judging themselves on their looks too.
This actually makes sense! I was once engaged to a man who loved me for how I looked before and after I lost weight. But the more weight I lost and “attractive” I became, his self confidence dwindled. Suddenly he didn’t think he deserved someone who looks like me, he believed he needed to change his looks. In the end I had to break up with him, as much as I loved him he needed to love himself. I was so scared that he’d end up resenting me for “looking better than him” according to societies standards.

You’re not a number on anyones scale. We need to practice more on not seeing people as numbers. I’ve put in that practice and I guess I’m lucky to have experienced being the “ugly” girl and the “attractive” girl. It’s all taught me so much!

[musicartculture]

My ex boyfriend who I was together with for many years met up for a coffee after many years apart. He said he was so in love with me but he was also constantly scared. I was very popular in school whole he was more of a smart nerd. I was crazy about him. He said he always felt so pressured by his own fears so he could never really relax. Even if he knew I was always loyal to him. He admitted he had heart attacks daily because all the other guys would try to hit on me or kept looking. It did not help my best guy pals were all really handsome athletic and smart guys. In the end he cheated on me with my bestfriend. He said he did not love her but it was easier since he did not feel the fear of losing her. He did have to be so ”perfect” as he felt he had to be to be my boyfriend. I thought it was so sad to hear this. I was so crazy for him. He really broke my heart.

[desyxd]

So true. That insecurity, is a man’s downfall. Even in relationships, men get insecure that they’ll be cheated on, and preemptively cheat first. I had an ex do that. He didn’t think he was good enough, and I didn’t have sex with him yet. He thought I was getting it somewhere else, cheating. So he cheated, accused me of cheating, and slit his throat after I denied his accusations. I think he knew I was a good person & realized I didn’t cheat, after he already fucked it up. It probably weighed on him a lot, seeing his drastic reaction. He was insecure before, and now he’s insecure, guilty, and in a mental hospital. We never even broke up, I just never saw him again. Crazy is life, huh?

[obbron]

Most agreeable person wins. Bring me peace & be attractive.

[kenzab]

I feel like it’s the opposite in France lol maybe he said that according to American studies but most of the people I think of in France, first my parents, the woman is always more attractive than their partner. Men seems to be less afraid of beautiful women as long term partners. It’s funny how when I came here men were calling me « trophy wife » as how I was treated by men in France. Men in France wanted me as their wife because I am pretty, the guy I was talking to in North America, didn’t want me because I was too pretty for him…

[sweetlady]

this is why i am terrified of marriage lol. imagine your husband settling for u because he thought u were just average looking enough for him to keep u. 😭

[themothers]

That goes both ways. Its tiring to have attractive guys because they are used to get whatever they want and can vanish in a second. Makes you insecure even though if the guy decides to stay its all good. But can be nerve wrecking