We got married!

At long last, our wedding video is finally complete! We hope you love our love as much as we love our love.

Here are the vendors we used for our wedding. This is NOT sponsored, but we loved our vendors and want to share their companies:

Thank you to our Advocacy Partners on Patreon:
Dillon C.
Juli M.
Roger B.
Antonio M.
Jeffrey M.
Jason B.
Malissa H.
JT
Janet G.
Jonathan K.
Poki
Diana
Ellen C.
Craig S.
Connor D.
David O.
Emily L.
Gavin W.
Ragnar V.
Shannon D.
Pedro C.

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Squirmy and Grubs
PO Box 16411
Minneapolis, MN 55416

Shane Burcaw (he/him) is the author of several award-winning books about disability. He is the President of a nonprofit organization called Laughing At My Nightmare, and a renowned public speaker who has performed across the country at places such as Harvard University, The University of Florida, The University of Connecticut, Princeton University, and many more.

Hannah Burcaw (she/her) graduated from Carleton College, where she studied Sociology and Anthropology. She films and edits the “Squirmy and Grubs” vlog, which has over 800,000 subscribers on YouTube. Hannah has spoken at prestigious universities and Fortune 500 companies alike about the realities of ableism. On her popular Instagram account, she advocates for acceptance of all people and works to improve the way society thinks about disability.

Shane and Hannah have been together for over four years. They got married in September of 2020 in the midst of a global pandemic in their backyard, with their officiant conducting the ceremony via Zoom. Their interabled relationship often confuses people, because much of society still cannot fathom people with disabilities being involved in loving, intimate relationships. Anyone who watches these episodes will quickly see their relationship is just as “normal” as any other. Sure, Hannah helps Shane use the bathroom and brush his teeth, but those activities do not detract from the emotional, intellectual, and physical connection they experience together.

[SquirmyandGrubs]

100% of the people in this video are paid actors that we hired to help propagate the lie that Hannah and I are a real couple. Just so you know.

[AlittleGuidetoLife]

As a parent of a daughter with cerebral palsy and an autistic son. I thank you for loving him for who he is. Love has no boundaries. This is one of the most beautiful things I've seen in my entire life.

[tinaann]

I admire both of you. I'm disabled and thought no one would love me or find me beautiful until I met my husband 25 years ago. He told me once that he never saw my disability ever. He just saw a beautiful woman who was the one for him. We both love each other tremendously. As I'm getting older and need more help he tells me that he married me in sickness and in health and that he takes his vows seriously. I wouldn't want it any other way. Hugs to you both.

[imtorrific]

As someone who's disabled as well I hope to find a love like this. You can just see it on your faces how much you two are in love and are an absolutely stunning couple with hearts of gold and hearts filled with love. You both are glowing in this video and I hope you have all the happiness and love you deserve. This was one of the sweetest things I've seen on Youtube. You two are rockstarts!

[Blueythebutterfly]

I am quadriplegic since 8, been married to a wonderful man who has no disability for 9 years now. Very happily married. Congratulations you guys!!! So happy for you.

[deniporter]

I truly and honestly don't think I have ever seen a bride look more happy on her "wedding day" then Hannah. The gown, was stunning, the veil was perfect, Chloe was adorable, Shane was "dressed to kill", and the venue was "spot on". Again Best wishes to the newly married couple! (A years time is still "Newly married)

[rommelbillman]

The tears are just streaming down my face. This is what love looks like. It’s not based on what the eye only sees but what the heart feels at that moment the eyes connect. These are two amazing individuals and I wish them all God’s blessings and a happy life together. CONGRATULATIONS 🥰

[meganmckissick]

This is probably the prettiest wedding dress I have ever seen! It is simple, classic, elegant and absolutely beautiful particularly on this bride! Best wishes!

[Lostmyspoons]

I mean this is in the nicest way possible. I hope Disney sees this, and makes it a movie idea. It would be amazing to have kids with disabilities see others like them deserve love too.

[hmarie]

Ok, that picture of you twirling in your dress has to be one of the best bridal pics I've ever seen! Just found you 2 today and I'm so grateful to know a little of your story. Congrats

[heatherjunker]

Hannah, I can honestly say you in your wedding gown and being all dolled up made you look like a beautiful princess. You truly picked the right dress. Words can't do justice. You looked perfect. I am glad you both found love and wish you a lifetime of happiness.

[kelley]

Can I just say Hannah is absolutely gorgeous!! Truly it seems both inside and out! And I find it impossible that anyone can see pics of honest moments of either of you and not be able to see the look of true love and happiness that one cannot fake!

[diannedavis]

She really likes him as a person and he’s really funny and I’m sure that they have a relationship that some people will never have. God bless them

[janetvalencia]

What a stunning yet simple wedding. The most important part is that you two were born for each other and enjoy each other so much. Not everyone is that lucky in this life, thus the reason for so many heaters on this internet. It is sad. I see this video and I am so happy for you. May God bless your love for eternity and beyond!

[denisepaulsenful]

We had been married for 14-yrs when i fainted- breaking my neck and I became paralyzed. We just celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary last July, and its a wonderful life - i just know that you two will enjoy many happy years together - unless of course Shane tires of Hannah’s arresting beauty or Hannah becomes immune to Shane’s clever wit and endless charm. Love ❤️ to you both from Toronto! And congrats!

[NS-]

Not gonna lie, boys, this proves that there are good hearted people out ther

[Jaxxons_NeNe]

Hannah you looked gorgeous and I’m so happy for you both. As a disabled person myself I know how hard it is for people to believe you can have a “normal “ relationship. Thank you for showing the world it can happen!!

[francineganmor]

Hannah is hands down, one of the most stunning women on Earth.

[cherylreichardt]

So precious between Hannah and her dad and the first time Hannah and Shane see each other. Who says their love isn't real. Congratulations!

[bloomshunt]

When 2 lovely souls come together. It makes everyone’s hearts expand. Blessing to y’all!