You are forever changed after losing a child. I lost my daughter 7 years ago. She was 27. The Lord has to help us.✝️🙏💕
cuddlesanddaisy
Betty thank you for sharing this compassionate message. Today December 18th, 2019, I lost my Beloved son Erek... He was 28 . My heart is Shattered & my Soul is Crushed.... A pain so unbearable, there are no words.... I am alone with my Grief as I have no family.... I miss you Erek with all of my Being...
Your Momma
I Love you Infinity 😭💔🕯🕯♾️
gingerbee
I just lost my son ....age 39.... thank you for talking to us.... you feel like someone understands💔❤
RF.
My oldest son dj a kind, compassionate, giving son passed at the age of 39, 7-2023 from covid. As his mother i prayed everyday for his healing for the 2 months that he was in the hospieal. I go to church i pray i have friends who are there but this heartache is so real. He was a musician, 🎶 played the drums, bass n rhythm guitar.
willwilliams
Thank you for posting your video. My daughter passed away June 29th, 2021. My Misha was 28 years old. The pain and loss is unbearable. I think that one of the things that makes grieving the loss of an adult child harder, is that in trying to understand, people try to draw comparisons. No one's grief should be minimized because death is HARD. In western cultures, we don't talk about death. People just want to talk about "getting over" and "moving on", but the simple fact that you have to bury your child is not something that you "get over". You don't "move on". It is out of order, it feels unnatural and that feeling stays with you. You are not supposed to outlive your children and people don't want to talk about your grief because they don't want to imagine it happening to them. So you put pressure on yourself to "heal" so that you can fit into "regular" society and act like you are ok. I get up everyday and do what I have to do, but I will not pretend to be ok when I am not, or to make other people comfortable. Losing a child changes you, and the loss should be acknowledged, accepted and honored.
MishasMama
Hi Betty, I lost my 40 yr old baby girl a week ago today. A detective came to my house and told me. He had such cold eyes and he was young. Her body has not been released from the Medical Examiner yet. I explained to the ME that I HAD to see my baby. Just like when they are born, we have to see them. I knew I had to before she's released and cremated. So two days after the autopsy they let me see her. I stroked her face so gently. I cried, I prayed, I sang to her. I knew she was in Heaven. I could feel it. I know it's wonderful that she's there but I am in this horrific nightmare 24/7. I need a support group. I went hunting on the internet tonight. There's one in my area but it is tomorrow and I am in no shape to drive. My thoughts and emotions are all over the place. I can't eat, sleep or smile. I am in this state all alone with no family here now that she is gone. The grief is overwhelming. Thank you for making this video.
SissyD
Thank you! This is an answer to my prayers. I just lost my daughter 2 weeks ago and I'm not doing well. I am a Christian and appreciate you bringing this video as a ministry. Please pray for me.
tiaz
Thank you so much. I lost my dear youngest son 5 months ago There is still no cause of death . He was 53 and simply collapsed Three weeks later my husband died from Parkinson’s. As sad as I was when my husband died, it was nothing compared to the loss of my son. I describe it as an atomic bomb exploding in my brain and heart. I am.writing this through tears. I am growing closer to the Lord as each day passes. You are right that no one else can understand unless they have lost a child.
marciatreat
You are a very sweet person. My sweet girl is on the other side after 36 years in our lives. There is nothing anyone can say. Just being there with respect is comfort.
janthorpe
Thank you for this YouTube message. Lost my son suddenly today 9/3/23, 35 years young. I miss him deeply, listening to you has helped today. Thank you!!
Theresa-uedj
Thank you for sharing... I lost my son, Dylan, my baby boy, on October 3rd, 2022 he was 25 years old. He was in a motorcycle accident he got hit from behind and was killed on impact. I know I wouldn't have survived this without God. God's love, grace, comfort, and healing are needed to get through this. Prayers for you and everyone mourning the loss of your child or family member.
mellisageorge
I lost my 29 y.o old beloved only son, Anthony, on January 2, 2023 to suicide. I am shattered 💔💔 My faith has been rocked...I am clinging on and I can only pray God carries me through this devastation.
fieldsendart
Dear friend God is our only source of hope in time of grief God bless you
claudettenarine
Thank you for sharing. I lost my son, Michael McDonald, 12/23/20 at age 28 in an ATV accident. The pain is overwhelming. My heart has a gaping hole. I so appreciate you sharing your story, the scripture & the prayer. 💔😭💔
bsjnm
I LOST MY ONLY SON IN 2018. I HAVE NOT GOTTEN OVER IT, MY FAMILY HAS NOT BEEN AS SUPPORTIVE AND MY WIFE AND I FEEL SO ALONE IN OUR GRIEF .I LOOK FORWARD TO SE EING HIM AGAIN WHEN JESUS COMES FOR US, WHICH I PRAY DAILY THAT ITS SOON. MY LIFE HAS NEVER BEEN THE SAME SINCE. I MISS HIM SO SO SO MUCH. ABSOLUTELY NOONE CAN IDENTIFY WITH THIS PAIN GRIEF.
courtneyjohnson
I lost my son Jacob in 2020 he got ran over by a Amtrak train he waited to late to get off the tracks he tried but the hook on the front of the train grabbed his arm and ripped it off and he bled to death can't even grasp the thought of that the pain he had endure to die my God I can't get past it I'm stuck in a stand still feel like my heart is in a million pieces feels like my insides are going to esplode I life i hate even breathing wished I could be with him I hate so much he had to die by his self God that's just torments me for life my life means nothing anymore without my Jacob he was my everything my life i was so good to him the pain never leaves I think about him every second of every minute I breath I just can't seem to go own wish my life people say it's gonna be ok It will never be ok I'll never be ok or ever be the same I look forward to nothing anymore nor do I want to it has change me too not giving a care about nothing ever again and i know I will never get over this or quit hurting like this or feeling the way I do there's nothing no one can do or say that will get me over this pain the worst thing is there's nothing you can do about it nothing I im here cause I have too be cause i don't have a choice I know I have a bad out look on life now but that's how it's made me feel and i know I will always feel that way no matter what sorry for your loss also
jangau
Lost my 22 years old son three weeks ago, I miss him very much. I am proud of him. His life was unfair, society did not make things easy to him however he was a warrior. He had a great heart and left a legacy of love. He adored his family. Two things keep me afloat, to believe he is in a better place now and well taken care off and that he had a mission and whenver his mission was over he was supposed to leave. I believe in destiny, we could have avoided it but have not control on his acts. My life will not be the same, I do not want to be the same person, I only want to honor my next years to him and making sure he would feel proud of me, I do not want to let him down. He was the first one, he was the most sensitive one, the most impulsive, I miss him so much. I texted him right after his accident, never received an answer back. I love you baba, forgive me if I did something wrong. I do know you were proud of your brothers and parents, I pray for God taking you, te quiero papi
junal
Thank you for this video. I can tell you have a beautiful soul. I lost my daughter almost 6 months ago. I feel like I’ve been knocked off my feet and my faith has been shaken. I just joined a GriefShare class. I pray it can help me. I’m also asking God to please heal my broken heart ❤️🩹🙏 Bekah’s mom ~ forever 22 🦋
ironbutterfly
I just lost my only child 11 weeks ago from a massive heart attack. He was 33 and had Asperger’s so he always lived at home with me. I’m so devastated.
wandalowry
Thank you for sharing and offering encouragement and hope. I am grieving the loss of my dear 28 year old son who passed last February, 2021. Thank you for the prayers. ❤
