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Being force fed certain foods can in fact guarantee that you NEVER like that food, not that you can "learn to like it"

JoRiver

I have a story that could go on this subredit.

When I was 2, it was a little my dad passed away and I was crying and saying, "I want Daddy!" Well there was this lady in the parking lot (we were grocery shopping) near me and my mom and she said, "Your daddy is at home sweetheart, you'll see him soon." My mom went, "Actually her daddy is in heaven." Aparently she went pale, stuttered a sorry, and got in her car and drove away.

Definitely tramatized her lol

Edit: Thank you to everyone for your kind words and likes! I appreciate you all!
Edit 2: NOOO IT GOT RID OF MY CLICK HEART

kookyblossem

Story 1 reminds me of a sensibility workshop about trans people I did recently (i work for a queer organisation), where the following exchange occured:
Karen: But wouldn't you also feel uncomfortable if _a trans_ stood next to you in the restroom?
Me: I wouldn't and most likely it already happened and you just couldn't tell.
Karen: Ofc I would, it's so easy to tell!
Me: You know I'm trans, right? You didn't seem to be uncomfortable standing next to me earlier (tbf it wasnt in the restroom)
Karen: *shocked pikachu face*

Gotta love the "we can always tell" community

thatoneweirdbish

Once me, my twin sister, and my friend were at the shops. We were looking at a section of hello kitty toys and an old senile looking man waddles over, walker and all. He stands practically breathing down my neck and says “are you pretty ladies a bit too old for those kinds of toys?”. We were 13. So my sister, not missing a beat, turns to him and in her deepest voice (she’s trans) said “aren’t you too old to be talking to little girls?” Before picking up a toy hammer. I’ve never seen an old man hobble away so fast.

achillesinlove

Friendly reminder that any sort of strict bathroom regulation is ableist! A lot of disabled folks have urgency issues or take longer in the bathroom.

KaydonDemster

When I got pregnant at 16 after my birth control failed with my first boyfriend, my mother told me that whatever I did was my choice. She pointed out that having a child at my age would be very difficult, but she would help me as much as she could. At the same time, she held no judgment, and told me she would take me to the clinic herself so I wouldn't be alone and scared. This was back in the 1980s. She also told me once that a woman did not need to be married or have a partner if she wanted to raise a child. I can't imagine being pressured to wait until marriage to have sex, and then being told I would go to hell if I killed my unborn child. The United States is truly moving backwards

MG-hzwi

Man I hate these people who think criticizing their speech is somehow denying them their freedom of speech. Like, dude, that freedom covers my freedom to tell you what I think of what you're saying too. But people think "free speech" means they can say what they want without consequence.

foxxknight

Ah yes, femboy trauma.
The type of trauma I didn’t know exist until now.
I’m so happy to finally know that it exists.

ApolloOnPawz

I'm oversharing but I have a great gay bar story. I was out walking my 18-month-old daughter in her stroller, 6 months pregnant with my son. A woman pulls over as I walk down the street, and kindly asked me if I knew where the lesbian bar was located. I enthusiastically gave her very detailed directions, and she thanked me and went on her way. It didn't occur to me until after she had pulled away that of all people on the street, she had chosen me, the pregnant soon to be mother of two. Then it struck me as even funnier that she was completely correct in the assumption that I knew exactly where the bar was.

Another time, a police officer asked me about a bumper sticker I had that promoted lgbtq rights. He asked me how I would feel if one of my little kids grew up to be one of them gay people. I told him I didn't really care one bit. He then asked me if I was a lesbian. I asked him if that was legal for a police officer to ask. This was in the day before regular body cams, and for a moment there I thought I was going to get arrested for asserting my own rights. Even though I live in one of the most liberal counties in one of the most liberal states, our particular city has had a terrible reputation of being racist sexist and homophobic for at least the past 50 years.

And the jokes on him! I am now the proud mother of a strong smart independent lesbian. He would probably think I groomed her that way or something LOL

MG-hzwi

My brother used to hide and jump out to scare my little sister, thinking it was the most hilarious thing that ever happened. It occurred often enough that she got tired of it and took control by started randomly screaming if he was near her, and my parents assumed he had scared her yet again and would ground him. This happened for years until my sister was a teenager and my brother finally learned his lesson. Good times.

yusahana

I remember back in high school, I had gone to the bathroom during class and changed my pad while I was in there. Just to be clear, I wrapped it up in the plastic wrap the new one came with, and then left to go back to the classroom.

Important note, this bathroom was right outside the classroom, which will be important in just a second.

Anyway, shortly after, one of the guys in my class also leaves for the bathroom and comes back loudly moaning about ‘someone having changed their pad in there’ and saying it was gross. And because the bathroom was right outside the classroom, he knew it was someone in here who did it! My teacher- a woman- just kept looking at him questioningly, asked if it had been left out in the open unwrapped, and when he said it wasn’t she just talked to him like she couldn’t see the problem. He feebly tried to make his point but eventually just sat down and shut up.

Like, what was this guy expecting would happen? That the teacher would question all of the girls until she found the guilty party and punish them for the crime of… changing their pad in the bathroom? To make more of an effort to hide their periods?

Fucking weirdo 🙄

Kamechan

I did something like the OP at 20:23 when I was like 17 or 18. My male A-hole supervisor asked me to limit my bathroom breaks to "once per shift" and I went into describing my period in full detail. Ending it with "sometimes the only way to relieve the knife in your gut like cramps is to take a piss because it sometimes helps the uterus expel whatever gross-nastiness it's trying to expel." He never brought up my bathroom usage again. Nowadays I still work there but I use a much more tame "I spend half my shift working in a 2'C (35'F) room and cold exposure causes the kidneys to flush fluids through your body much faster."

ExSharkV

I used to talk to this dude who would spend the conversations talking to my chest. After this happened a couple times, I snapped my fingers in his direction until he looked up at me and said, "People don't like when you stare at their breasts." He immediately sputtered and tried to explain he was just autistic and was trying to talk in my general direction without actually looking at me, explaining he's asexual. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and said, "That's fine, but people won't like if you zone out around their chest. People will think you're being a perve and get mad at you. Look beyond my shoulder if you need to." Future conversations had him always looking like 3 feet above my head, but hey... progress.

Moral of the story: sometimes people are pervs, sometimes they might be genuinely oblivious. It's always worth the five minutes to directly explain why a behavior is bad and let them fix it

Strnds

20:30 I'm a trans guy and I've been seeing this guy for about a month now, and I had to cancel our date today because I started my period and the dysphoria is killing me, and I was expecting him to freak out a bit so I censored it to just "shark week".

Y'all he was so so understanding and kind about it, sympathising that my dysphoria must be going insane and that I need to take the day to just rest and distract myself with some Pokemon and movies.

Get yourself a person like this. This man is a KING.

Edit: clarifying that he googled what shark week was so he did understand what that was code for, and it didn't disturb him at all, just got him to clarify I don't need to censor that because it's a completely natural thing.

Me-glrb

Like most AFAB I didn’t ever think an abortion would be something I needed. I was pro-choice, but was really good about using birth control. Then I went through a really tough time in my life, missed a few pills, had a romantic evening I didn’t plan for… and there ya go. I’m 20, a student, the guy I slept with was in no way ready to have a kid, and on top of it all I’m flat broke. Well, down to the clinic it is!

In the clinic they sat 5 of us AFAB at a table in order to do the necessary FYI talk efficiently. While we waited, we got to talking. The other AFAB were:

1. A military officer about to deploy.
2. A mom with three kids, who wished it was a good time to have a fourth, but knew that her other kids’ lives would be negatively impacted by the financial strain of a fourth child.
3. A young person who I now realize was probably trans. (They were very eager to get on to the part where we all took our pills to start the process 😂).
4. A teenager, who at first was quiet and embarrassed, but warmed up once we started chatting and told us she and her boyfriend didn’t know you could get condoms or birth control without telling your parents. She was there with her mom who scolded her… for not just asking her mom to help her get birth control.

I realized that day that abortion wasn’t just normal—it’s truly the responsible thing to do in so many situations in order to protect your bodily integrity, your career, your future family, or even the kids you already have. And I found that out because I listened to other AFAB talk about why they were getting an abortion. So now I’m telling you about our stories. 😊

The abortion one always irks me. "You'll never understand my/ my daughter situation" there's literally *8 BILLION* people on this planet your situation will not nor ever be "special".

"She has a scholarship and need to focus on school" yeah so does the other 17-20 year Olds who come here.

"She was assaulted by a family member" yeah remember the 10 year old in Ohio? Yeah she was also assaulted what makes her situation different than yours?

"I'm not ready" yeah so was the ladies who came in before you and who will come after you. YOU. ARE. NOT. SPECIAL. it's a choice for a God damn reason.

krishaunafisher

They say you attract what you fear.... Oh no femboy trauma!!!! Please don't come traumatize me!!!

SkylerNightsky-zn

Once had some random man see me looking very sad. He decided to chime in with the classic “ pretty girl like you should be smiling ! Come on- let’s have a smile! It can’t be that bad !” To which I swiftly informed him of how I had walked face first into the hanging, deceased, body of my best friend in the whole world in my basement just the night before; So, no. I will not be “giving him a smile “ and yes, it could be and was “that bad”

ellecapone

Regarding the sidewalk protestors at the clinic: a woman I know worked at Planned Patenthood as a receptionist when she was pregnant. Most patients were there for counseling and contraceptives. The protestors assaulted the pregnant woman who was simply going to work.

shannonp

People get really angry at my support of pro choice.
I started telling them, in detail, about the reason my extremely conservative pro life parents chose to nearly kill me to abort my pregnancy at home so no one could find out.
I go into as much detail as possible in both how I became pregnant (assault) and how i nearly died...
I support the access to safe, medically observed abortion where the patient has a voice.

meztlistormheart