What To Do When He's Moving Too Slow

What To Do When He's Moving Too Slow
When we are really interested in a man, our instinct is to focus in on it and put all of our attention on him. We start doing things that we think will speed up the level of commitment we desire, only to find ourselves feeling like we're working way too hard and that his interest is waning. When a woman confidently loves who she is and connects to her inner value and sensuality, love comes naturally and love and romance come effortlessly.
When she's able to truly accept and appreciate what he does have to give right now rather than needing more, he can't wait to step up and give to the dating, relationship, or marriage in the most powerful ways. Men fall in love when they are giving to a woman who is appreciate, present, and able to receive authentically. When a woman learns what to do when he's moving too slow, she actually inspires him to speed things up, step up, and move things forward.
Watch this video for more on what to do when he's moving too slow by living a full vibrant life and being anchored in your inner magnetic sensitivity as a woman.


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[djpdyson]

Nah. I was with a guy for 9 months and he wanted to just go with the flow. I had decisions I needed to make based on what we were doing and he wanted to keep me waiting. I don't wait for anybody. I was ready to move forward and if he didn't want to do it with me, that was entirely his choice but I also had the right to make decisions for myself based on what I needed and wanted. So I let him go. He wanted to keep me waiting for an indefinite period of time. I wasn't doing that. I'm not going to keep investing and sitting around waiting for somebody to feel sure about me. If you're not sure about me in 9 months, you may never be sure about me so as far as I'm concerned, then it's just time to move on. Because then that precious time I could be waiting for him, could be more productively used to find the man that really does want to move forward.

[Semiramidha]

I love how you talked about this! Slowing down our instinctive urgency and practicing groundedness instead, being happy with what he has to give as it is, letting him set the pace and not forcing it... and removing that focus by taking care of ourselves and what brings us joy outside of him... Thank you very much for these reminders 💕

[Mary-grmr]

This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you so much .

[melissabennett]

My question is for that guy who wants to move slow and get to know each other over time . He’s super nice and we spend time in public and in private. When I’m private we have amazing sex.. afterwards sometimes I feel like maybe he’s not saying he loves me or speak of commitment or the future because he’s only keeping me around for sex. We’re in a exclusive relationship but it feels like a friendship who has sex.. he knows I love him but I don’t feel like he feels the same way. I plan that the next time that I spend time in private to test him by telling him I just want to spend time together “tonight” without sex and see how he reacts to me after I leave his place

[gabrielaraimondo]

I totally agree with this! Men want to feel not pushed... and that they are in control! So let them set the pace... if we want more and talk it over and still he hesitates... as we cannot change anyone but ourselves... Just keep doing YOU! He already knows what you want... so when he's ready... he'll come around and do things sometimes even better than we thought it was possible! If not... what's the point in insisting it must be like this and now? It's a waste of energy... plus men want to feel that they make the decisions... so let them... then we'll see if we agree or not! In the meantime let's focus on ourselves and be happy and that man will notice the change and perhaps react faster than we expected! It's my experience! But I understand it's not easy... because men and women are so different... Women are from venus and Men are from Mars... I suggest the book!👏👏👏👌👌👌👌😉😉😉 Amazing coaching!❤❤❤

[dancingcloud]

I was instinctively following this advice. But then by day 8 of him having checked in with me twice, but then dropping the conversation ball, I asked him why is he being distant. He said he could call me, i said I prefer in person, so he suggested tomorrow to meet. He said he was feeling conflicted

[catriot]

Not pushing, not waiting, keep busy, taking good care of myself, but every few minutes still checking on my phone 😂

[cathievercher]

After 5 years he no longer gets to set the pace. That’s allowing him to under value your worth. That’s u fair….

[jacquelinekleips]

So helpful. Its exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you.

[zibajaaan]

Nice video, very helpful. 🙏 thank you!

[lastofthemohicans]

What if this goes on forever without him taking it a step forward? This is like saying he could drag a girl along without having to commit. I made the experience that guys will take advantage of you when you behave in that way.

[thesoulalignmentspecialist]

What happens or what should one do if you didn’t watch this first + tried to speed it up + he pulled the plug? Any hope for us in him coming back?

[MyFrankieee]

Date slow with him and make sure you have another date aswell better to have 2 in the beginning

[SensualBrunette]

Hi thank you. What to do when he only texts? And only texts to set up dates?

[jasminesteward]

What happens if the guy is moving slow then tells you he wants to be friends first you try to speed it up it doesn’t work but he’s still around we have fun he’s so sweet and he’s great with my son. Been around him for 2 years now. Am I crazy? He told my grandma I’m special to him and told me he doesn’t want to lose me. Idk what to do? Do I continue at this pace? We never had sex by the way.