Marriage

No matter who you are—Mexican, Christian, Muslim, Black, White, Rainbow, Trans—DON'T BE FAT 💪

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4:45-11:01 Interview

[umayoub]

Im a revert and literally met my arab husband 7 times before marriage. I approached it like a business with focused questions. We married in less than 3 months, that was 26 years ago. Alhamdulillah Allahibarak

[IslamicMotivationReminders]

marriage is more secure than dating
dating is practicing divorce

[matunstaib]

We got married when we were 21. We have 4 boys. 2024 is our 46th anniversay. Alhamdulillaah.

[amernewful]

I got married at 20 😊

So happy
So fullfilled

[enestahsinyldrm]

What a wonderful sunset :) greetings from Türkiye man, GET MARRIED AND DONT BE FAT

[NurDiyanaMdNasir]

"Why do we not get married at 16"? Good question there Grayson. If a man has a good heart, knows what needs to be done and can support his wife and children financially, chances are he can turn out to be a good husband/father. But teens nowadays might need more time before they're ready to take on those roles. While marrying young can be beneficial, we also want to avoid having young single mothers who are left struggling and fending for themselves with their children.

[Michiko_kr]

The Sky in the background beautiful { SubhaanAllaah}, { Allaahu Akbar}.

[bigcodeteknomedia]

I got married at the age of 23, and now almost 15 years, every day I still feel the same love as when I met my wife for the first time. now we have been blessed with 4 wonderful boys. Alhamdulillah

[hadildiab-hadaya]

You need to be emotionally mature and balanced for marriage, ready to provide and take on responsibilities. Yes, biology and socialization does push for companionship, but make sure you at least try to know what you are getting into and that you feel compatibility and share some values and sparks.

[Emb_Sys]

I can relate. Even in a Muslim country like Morocco, society glorifies marriage, which makes it much harder than just dating. However, the majority of young people here still date. I did too, but when I started practicing Islam, I began to see how straightforward and confident the marriage process is, compared to the rollercoaster of dating and the short-lived gratification it brings. Choosing marriage has completely changed the way I operate. My productivity increased by 300% because, in the back of my mind, I know I'll be married next year, and there's no time to waste.

note edit: I'm 23, still a student, and I'll be getting married next year, inchaallah. I spoke to her father, and we agreed on the date. Highly recommend it for young mens.

[iram_]

I am 22 and just got done with my bachelors in Computer Science and Engineering .I have never dated as I fear Allah.On my return from college I tried to convey to my mum(single parent) that she should find me a guy but everyone at my family started making fun of this.They told me it is very hard to find a good guy and the only way to do that is either to find yourself or get a good job.Honestly it is not easy to get married especially in this time where everyone expects you to find a guy for yourself.Things become harder when you are on the right path, that is what I have personally experienced so far.

[MuslimHealthHacks]

I met my husband through an online Muslim matrimony service. My father and brother did his background check and spoke to him. I spoke to him but most of it was asking questions to see how compatible we are (he did the same). My questions ranged from financial debt, religion, how important health is to him, children, role of husband and wife etc… romance talk came after we signed the Islamic contract lol (the whole investigation and interrogation took 2mths 😅)

we are now married over a decade and have 4 children. We have had our ups and down but since I knew his values before marriage I also knew what to expect from him during the good and bad times.

Alhamdulillah I am soo grateful for my husband and I hope the younger generations realise that traditional way of marriage is the way to go!

[arooasmoos]

I got married at 25 and we were both studying.. We didnt have a place to live and he didnt have a mean to provide we ended up living at his family's house .. and they made us divorce .. I got divorced with a baby and he cheated on me . I was all alone with my baby at home and he was cheating with this woman who was also married . He barely spent on his child... He doesnt call his child who was abondoned as a baby.. I have been a working single mom ever since..Now he is 11 and even now I have to beg my son's dad to call and talk to him or take him to prayer.. Its me who has been taking him to the mosque.. teaching him everything while struggling with cancer...
Yes go for it if you have your family's blessings or if you have the means to provide for your wife! otherwise NO! DONT DO IT!

[markwhite]

I totally agree so long as you can support your wife and future family. Im a revert and agree with you mashallah

[TrendGame-TG]

Yeah, being married is always good. But you’ve got to find the right person, and the right person is a rare coin these days.

[Spm]

Marriage (to the right person) will keep you steadfast in your iman, protect you from doing bad stuff, and make you healthier physically & mentally.

[Thinkbig]

Getting married young is always beneficial. Let’s make this trendy ❤️❤️❤️

[Palestino]

أشهد ان لا إله إلا الله وأشهد ان محمد رسول الله.

[Lara_n]

Focusing about what Grayson is talking about ❎
Being amazed by the beauty of the nature ✅

[ZAZAHO-O]

7:17 it’s funny how when lady joined she did favor to Grayson and start speaking, woman are so good at talking and expressing words, they never run out of words 😂😂😂