When Is It Time To Let Go?

We hear this question a lot... When is it time to let go? Should I let go? It's a simple question that requires a complex answer. Every situation is different, but in this episode we dive into this question and give helpful insight backed by research.

Time Stamps:
0:00 - When is it time to give up and let go?
1:12 - When they found him a foot from the ground.
2:12 - The principle of not leaving what you have unless you believe better.
3:47 - Physical jeopardy and safety.
5:17 - How to end a marriage?
7:13 - How long does a person need to wait for a divorce?
9:05 - Have you done everything you can do to save the marriage?
10:12 - The hard decision to divorce and start dating.

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[CSPD]

Perfect timing on this one. Sitting outside my therapist office waiting for my appointment as I contemplate divorce. There is wisdom in a multitude of council.

[h.]

Marriage helper plz make a video on what to do if your spouse avoids pysical intimacy completely on all grounds. Plz give solution a lot of people want to know

[phillipjones]

I wouldn't be going to anything better at the moment unless being alone is better than being in a marriage where I feel lonely and there's no or little interaction between us, let alone affection, emotion, intimacy.

[merrynichols]

My story when I let go. He started to become addicted to prescription drugs, he stop providing for his family. I left and while we were apart I asked him to go to counseling together and he said he didn't want to. That's when I knew it was time to divorce.
We were married for 36 years. Very sad indeed

[royrodgers]

Thankfully my sons and i do see progress. We have been standing for over 10 months now.

[keithlamb]

Does anyone consider total refusal of physical intimacy a form of abuse?

[slavenpladou]

When you’ve tried every avenue possible. Fixed your own flaws. I tried so hard to get her back but there was someone else. I had to walk away. As soon as another person is with them, the relationship is damaged forever. Break your heart and move on. Day by day.

[Peaka]

Nearly 4yrs in separation, no signs of reconciliation, I’m ready to let go. 😢

[ericchan]

I don't get it. If someone left because they thought they found something better, why would people like us want them back? While we were together in the early stage, everything was fine. When you get married, buy a house, have a baby and then things may get tough, either financially, PIES, and with the pandemic which didn't help, and a partner leaves because they felt they got something else better than what they have to deal with, would we really want them back? It just doesn't make sense.

[nickoleross]

Can you do a video on how your able to tell that the lord is softening your husbands heart towards you please.

[Gizmodi]

I love your channel by the way. It helped me more than months of therapy

[sarahpalacios]

Dear Lord he hurt me so badly, and I've hurt him. But I want nothing more than to have him home. I love him more than I ever thought I could love a man. He asked me to file for divorce for him because he can't and I can't bring myself to do it.

[Nupur.b]

I am so so grateful to the Universe for people like you and all your hard work. You have given me so much hope.

[donna]

Dr. Joe, you are the BEST! God bless you.

[christinaalexaaa]

My situation is weird: we got divorced after a year and a half of being separated. Recently he gave me back my things but now he just continues to string me along in conversation. It’s frustrating and annoying. I decided to today to just go ghost on him for a while just so I can breathe and not be hurt every time I see his name across my phone screen. I need to heal. And he isn’t admitting his wrong in anything and most of the conversations have been fruitless.

[hemenwayhaulingllc]

Loved your comment about sleeping with Innocence.!! Unfortunately I think there is a lot of people going without sleep! and not looking in the mirror!😮..not sure how they do it..

[BlackPriest]

So if my Divorce goes through, and after time things rekindle… I’ve told myself that I want her to date but if she’s been physical with someone, I wouldn’t be comfortable with taking her back. Is that a thing? Is that ok?

[aprilstaley]

My husband has come on financial difficulties and says its going to delay the divorce. I may have pushed when i said "ok I don't want this anyway" but I don't want him to be struggling 😕 I just wont pay for his divorce agenda either.

[zphzrhzraefoiaj]

Wife is dead set on divorce, moving out soon. Friends and family urge me to let go. Dont know what to do. She also exhibits unacceptable behavior and has done so for years. I accepted my own faults and largely asked for her forgiveness. What to do?

[SC-peir]

If you find yourself asking that question more than once, the answer is yes