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I'm Going Bald...What If My Partner Leaves Me?
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I got a message for a guy the other day, that I just couldn’t stop thinking about, because I know so many guys feel just like him, and it must feel terrible and in this video, I want to address it.
So the message I got went something like this, for the last few years I have been using minoxidil and finasteride to cover up my balding spots, but eventually I know that they will stop working and I will go bald. My girlfriend has no idea I am losing my hair. She always makes comments about how she wants me to grow my hair out long and I am so afraid to tell her I’m losing my hair because I am afraid she will leave me.
This is the reason why so many guys are so insecure about losing their hair. I thought about this guy's situation all day. And to be honest, it’s not a situation I myself have had to deal with.
When I began to lose my hair, my wife didn’t care at all. And whether I had hair or not, she liked it either way. When I had a shaved head and told her I was considering growing it back and asked what she thought she said she liked it either way so do whatever makes you happy.
As a person in a relationship, that’s exactly what you should want in a partner. And as a partner yourself, you should strive to be that exact same way. A relationship should be a partnership where you care deeply for each other.
My advice, though I am sure it would hurt initially if it went poorly, is to be honest. If she decided to leave him based on the fact he was balding, he honestly dodged a bullet.
No guy should have to live in the fear his partner would leave him if he lost his hair, and likewise if your girl lost her hair, would you leave her?
I think it would be worse to be in that kind of relationship than just being alone. Be yourself, be confident in who you are and be in a relationship that’s deeper than appearances. That’s the only way it will last anyways.
And I am curious, are there any guys out there who have gone through this? How did it turn out for you? Are you in this position now?
#hairloss #relationships #balding #relationshipadvice
So the message I got went something like this, for the last few years I have been using minoxidil and finasteride to cover up my balding spots, but eventually I know that they will stop working and I will go bald. My girlfriend has no idea I am losing my hair. She always makes comments about how she wants me to grow my hair out long and I am so afraid to tell her I’m losing my hair because I am afraid she will leave me.
This is the reason why so many guys are so insecure about losing their hair. I thought about this guy's situation all day. And to be honest, it’s not a situation I myself have had to deal with.
When I began to lose my hair, my wife didn’t care at all. And whether I had hair or not, she liked it either way. When I had a shaved head and told her I was considering growing it back and asked what she thought she said she liked it either way so do whatever makes you happy.
As a person in a relationship, that’s exactly what you should want in a partner. And as a partner yourself, you should strive to be that exact same way. A relationship should be a partnership where you care deeply for each other.
My advice, though I am sure it would hurt initially if it went poorly, is to be honest. If she decided to leave him based on the fact he was balding, he honestly dodged a bullet.
No guy should have to live in the fear his partner would leave him if he lost his hair, and likewise if your girl lost her hair, would you leave her?
I think it would be worse to be in that kind of relationship than just being alone. Be yourself, be confident in who you are and be in a relationship that’s deeper than appearances. That’s the only way it will last anyways.
And I am curious, are there any guys out there who have gone through this? How did it turn out for you? Are you in this position now?
#hairloss #relationships #balding #relationshipadvice
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