The BRUTAL TRUTH About Being LONELY In Your 30s

You lose friends when you get older. Is there something wrong with it? Let me share my challenges of reconnecting with old friends. And what I do to maintain relationships with those I want to grow with.

00:00 Losing friends as you grow older is a natural part of life.
00:26 Evolution of friendships. As people grow older, their priorities and lifestyles change, leading to drifting apart from old friends who may not share the same values or goals.
00:40 You will lose friends.
01:28 Personal growth and choices. Making decisions like pursuing a career, starting a business, or changing environments can lead to outgrowing old friendships and moving in different directions.
02:45 Adapting to new environments. Transitioning from familiar settings to new challenges shapes individuals and their relationships.
03:43 In your 30s, it becomes challenging to maintain old friendships due to diverging paths and busy schedules.
04:28 What do you need to build new connections that align with your current life direction?
05:21 Relationships, like plants, require nurturing and effort to grow. Making an effort to reach out and connect with others is essential.

[matisyahup]

I am 37 and have not had friends since my early 20s.
You just adapt, life goes on.
Honestly I look back on my so called friends and realize
that nothing was even that close.

[fuzzypanda]

The most important thing you need to figure out in life is what difficulty setting you're living on. If you're living life on Easy or Normal mode, all you have to do is show up and things just kinda fall into place for you. Maybe you have to hit the gym for a bit or something if you're on Normal mode, but things will have a way of working out.

But if you're living on Hard or Nightmare mode, everything ends in loss. Everything. Get into as good of shape as you want, travel the world, spend your time improving yourself, it won't make any difference, because the universe will make sure things fall into place in just such a way that things DON'T work out for you. Ever.

[arnaupuig]

I am in my 30s, I am lonely, and you know what? It's GREAT.

[thelastdaybreathinginetern]

I'm 29, I've been a Metalhead for 16 years. I am still lonely.. so 30s.. is nothing new.

[drharry]

all these dark but true facts is big for a person{me} who just crossed teen drama

[Riza]

Why not be able to congratulate someone? And instead u comment hate. Learn to choose love instead.

[ThomasRooth]

If you invite me to your wedding in the future, I swear I will show up!

[alberternestquillea.castro]

OMG this is something I'm really afraid of :(