This Was Hard For Her To Share... An Oddly *emotional* Mukbang Q+A

What's up wolf gang! We are back with another q&a today, but this one is MUKBANG edition. We answer some of your questions while eating some of our favorite food on the island. The video got unexpectedly emotional and vulnerable after asking Kian a question. Hope you enjoy hanging out with us.

0:00 Intro + What We Are Eating
1:53 Something Kian's Scared To Ask Kyle
2:33 Does Our Attraction Fluctuate?
6:40 Living In Hawaii vs Living In Arizona
11:00 Our Most Vulnerable Moments In Our Relationship
16:09 Our Favorite Worship Songs
17:36 When Do We Feel The Most Loved?
18:00 Favorite Childhood Memories
19:35 Deleting Social Media
20:15 Assumptions About Being A Husband/Wife

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[hannahamelang]

Kian, you have no idea how much I needed to hear what you said about self hurting. I’m newly married and very recently went through a time very similar where it felt like we were fighting constantly and I had so much built up emotion that I would hit things or myself because it felt like I needed to get it out of my system in some way. I eventually confessed to my husband and my parents because bringing things into the light is exactly what needs to happen for healing to begin!! You confessing that on youtube just shows how willing you are to admit where you’re still growing, and so many of us needed that encouragement. Thank you for your obedience, much love ♥️

[lianarnst]

I love how vulnerable and honest you guys are. I feel like a lot of Christians on YouTube (and life in general) mask their struggle and aren’t as open minded and honest with themselves. It really frustrates me when they hide it behind pride which isn’t the point of being Christian. Keep staying as close to the LORD as you are! Love you both!

[gerolynmatos]

omg I cried when Kian cried! My husband is so humble and has never disrespected me and I feel like i'm on the impatience side, which I blame myself for not giving that all to God because it might cause arguments! But I honestly felt that❤️

[livjames]

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, love how raw and honest these videos are!🙌🏻And yes please do a seperate video on Kyle having to confess sins and be vulnerable, sounds like it would be a very interesting topic.

[anajen.]

Thank you for normalizing the highs and lows of life, faith, marriage, it’s beautiful to see you guys grow and it encourages me in my marriage. I think if we Christians were more open about our struggles the world wouldn’t be so quick to label us hypocrites when we mess up etc.

[thelmb.]

Oh Kian, how I wished I could give you a hug when you shared that private truth 🤍 the eyes you gave Kyle when he was taking accountability ti what led you to those actions spoke 1000 words. I think a lot of us have been there, I'm glad you two are continuing to handle your emotions differently

[reethuabraham]

Wow. Kian, thank you for being so raw. Kyle, the way you held Kian and took responsibility and stood by her side through your words was sooo tender to watch. What a sweet moment. God works in these moments. God's has the both of you in the palm of your hands! There is healing and restoration in his hands and you both are receiving it and have received it! Seriously, love you both for your honesty! Keeping you in prayers!

[jessimitchell]

I also cried when Kian cried! Thank you for being so vulnerable. The worship song I was listening to yesterday is Break Every Chain and I since I was jamming out so much I think it is one of my current faves.

[madisonltree]

I like the mukbang style, I feel like I’m eating a meal with you guys (although I’m just eating a Reese’s egg)

[xStephieboox]

Kian I’m so happy you shared that! I can relate, I was in a relationship where I would get physically abusive with my partner because I felt like that was the only way to get him to stop pushing my buttons, etc. and I was SO ashamed, I’ve told very few people.
I ended up leaving him because I couldn’t keep doing that and I’ve never done it again with my future partners.

Isn’t it so crazy how we think we’ll never be the one to act like that and then certain situations bring it out of us and show us our deeper layers?

[gabrielavega]

Kyle and kian, I just want to say I am in awe of what God has done in your marriage. I’ve been married for 5 years and I can truly say I didn’t handle things right in the beginning of our marriage and we recently had a baby 10 months ago and I went back to my old habits. I also did things like you kian. I strayed from God’s path briefly and it showed in my marriage. But my husband has been so patient and has loved me unconditionally that I was able to feel God’s love through him and that’s what has motivated me seek God more deeply. Thank you for sharing your raw emotions.

[suewolfgang]

Oh my goodness, this video was an emotional roller coaster!!! I felt your faith, love, joy, transparency, depth, vulnerability and just enough silliness!!! Sending bunches of hugs your way!!! Love you both so much…and Jesus loves you more!!! 🙌💛🥰

[tobiblocker]

I really appreciate how open and honest you both are. I love that you normalize having highs and lows in your faith, relationships, careers etc.

It’s so easy to fall into the trap that no one else is struggling with these things especially on the internet. Thank you!

[emilylynne]

Please do the sin confession video. It would help so many couples. My fiancé just confided to me some secret sins I had no idea he was struggling in and the news really hurt me. We actually had to call off our engagement to work through these issues. Would love a video on Kyle’s confessions and how you both handled it.

[Loriiiiilynnnnn]

Y’all’s growth is so apparent, I am so happy for you guys. Thank you for sharing!
Love y’all!

[T-Mary]

I love these videos so much, thanks for being so honest. I also used to lose control when arguing, throwing stuff and hitting my head in frustration. It feels so scary.

[mjalphonse]

Thank you for being vulnerable Kian! I struggle with Trichotillomania - hair pulling - from 2007 to now. It’s a form of self-harm and internal anger, and I pray for deliverance because I wouldn’t wish it on anyone 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[maryblum]

Thank you so much for being so vulnerable and honest and raw with us! It's helped me alot <3 and I just wanna say that I totally relate to taking frustration out in the wrong ways I also struggled with that at one point. Anyways thank y'all sm for sharing I love you guys! 🤍

[SimplySami]

oh wow i can definitely relate to the vulnerable question.. i’ve been there a lot of times, where you can’t control it in the moment and you end up hurting yourself flipping out and yeah def not proud but i’ve come a longgg way and it only gets easier! thanks for sharing <3

[lizd]

I really love these honest, vulnerable videos. I would love to see the confession video