What do narcissists do with your forgiveness? #narcissist

[sitascott]

The last time he tried to apologize, his abuse following that was SO instantaneous and horrific that it simply finished shredding the relationship.

[Morpheus-ptwq]

When they apologize, they often make it sound as an insult to you, something like "i´m sorry you´re so sensitive" - they make it again about you, not about them.

[milliec]

I must say your channel has help me understand the emotional damage that has be projected upon me....I knew I was never crazy or tripping....thx so very much...now I know how to move around my (80yr old grandma)nar·cis·sist. I am on my way to true

[laurad]

Yes. Twice I broke things off, each time when he came back and I forgave him, the abuse would get worse, like there was a pause, and then the level of abuse and manipulation would just pick up from where they left off.

[benedictachiechem]

yes, when I asked what are you sorry for he said for everything. you are the best. thank you.

[melis.j.]

Went through this drama Danish. I am free for 3 years and happy. Bless you and your channel

[aking]

It is a reset button. No complaints, & they go back to abuse & demand complete loyalty.

[tonimccullough]

All mine does is say sorry. I’m sorry. I’m sorry. So now my response has become “Are you? Are you really sorry? Because if you were, would this situation have happened?” “again?”

[mariannekoroleva]

My narc "mother" used to say as apology "I just do this on purpose"...I have always forgiven her at the moment and forever...Thank You!!:))!!👍🌺🍀💯%!!🎁🌈⚓!!

[mararamitchpeace]

"You never believe me!" WTF! LOOK AT YOUR BEHAVIOR! The actions don't match the words! 🤬

[vandanabhogaraju]

This is absolutely true ! They say sorry because that is what is expected to get into the relationship again !

[netosampaio]

Before iniciating the healing process and no contact, I forgave the demon. It was a great present to this evil entity, she grew because of it, she must have felt pure delight, but never asked what I forgave her for. Oh well, whatever, it really doesn't even matter anymore. Good luck and I don't care. I hope.

[rozdoyle]

'it wasn't right, we never talked ' that was my Narc's way of trying to get back in despite the fact that he was the one who once told me ' Don't talk and you are negative ' whenever I tried to discuss anything, when he knew he had no quarter with me anymore, he suddenly had to attend to something urgent going on in the background which had always been his pattern, they really don't want other people at all, they just want to know that someone is there should their pain become too much .

[janetkendle]

My first husband would stay mad at me for as long as he wanted if he did something bad he expected me to forgive instantly

[IamMoForever]

This is currently my life, right now today. This man begged me for a second chance ( which is most probably his 7th chance) about 2 weeks ago. He's insecurities resurfaced on new years day and I said im done, for real this time.


These people don't love, they use you to their convenience.

[marybowers]

My ex covert Narc wouldn’t really apologize he would say it was a misunderstanding. Like when he went out to dinner with his ex and paid for dinner and drinks. When I found out 10 months later he said she needed closure and I was misunderstanding the whole situation. These people are crazy

[laurieblue]

Mine asks for an apology when he's in the wrong. Best way to get through it is put some Bluetooth ear pods on under a hat and try to not listen

[advenvtech]

My partner of 30+ years has never apologized, so I was wondering that this word ever existed in their vocabulary, then I realized that she feels that she is never wrong.

[gjb]

My boyfriend told me that he doesn't say sorry Or thank you to anyone so casually because those words have a value... Once I made him say sorry for hurting me he had a grudge against me for it.

[hayleyhunt]

I just got back with my partner after 6 months apart from he’s cheating I forgave him for myself really my own peace and we had been back together for a few weeks and a lady called me to say she had been dating at the same time I got back with him and was confused at he’s behaviour so reached out to me as he’s former gf … so we both found out at the same time he was cheating again you can’t forgive narcissists as they are not sorry and don’t give them a second chance just run while you can!!!! They can’t change they don’t want too!!!
Selfish and loathing and punishing only god bless you all xxx ❤️