what if... | how this question changed our lives (literally)

This "what if" mindset or more specific a positive spin on the "what if" mindset has been a massive game changer for us! We feel so rejuvenated and excited now that we are living an expectant life versus a life filled with negativity and despair!

Love,
Chad, Tori, Micah & Noah

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[snehalkita]

just something to help y'all. Faith of a mustard seed is not small faith but ABSOLUTE faith. Meaning the mustard seed KNOWS it's going to grow into a mustard TREE, big and abundant. Love you guys!

[tonyacanada]

Love how Chad is always so transparent in sharing his struggles and not feeling ashamed. And thank you Tori for sharing some encouragement and self-evaluating questions of "what if" Thank you both!!

[michelestricker]

Best video yet!!🔥🔥🔥
So many need to hear this on repeat. I’ve walked through living with someone with the wrong mindset for too many years. So many snippets! I’m going to relisten and make a few notes as reminders. All things I know but can never hear enough.
Thank you for being so transparent and encouraging!

[lovehopefaith]

Wow ❤ this is so encouraging and right on time. I asked the lord what I should do in this season and this is the answer. Coming out of my job season with suffering and depression... It's not easy to have good thoughts after dealing with only negative thoughts for such a long time. The lord said: new wine and new wine skins ❤

[jaynepictures]

Just want to say that you Tori and you Chad have been a blessing in my life now. God working through you both xxx

[cdesjardins]

This video is literally epic. Like this all is so true! What ifs were always negative. And now that God brought me my little miracle girl the what ifs for what is next is exciting! Thank you for sharing!!!!

[michellemkhari]

Love this family and what the Lord is doing in your lives ❤

From South Africa 🎉

[theofehsenfeld]

Chad's vulnerability is incredible, never stop sharing ya'll! You breathe life into me.

[alisonrittener]

Renewing the mind! Made me think of the interview with Craig Groeschek and now reading his book "Winning the War in your mind"!! Highly recommend!

[mariarechner]

I love love love you guys! The real conversations are so helpful and needed <3 This is just what I needed to watch today!! Sending your beautiful family lots of love and prayers. ☺

[johnalade]

i feel like i was just in a time machine, the first video of yall I watched was 3 years ago. maybe this is what time travel feels like

[christinaantipenkov]

I lolled at chad's double reaction at the end... I was doing it at the same time too as Tori was speaking 🔥🔥 😂 *whew* thank you guys for sharing what y'all go through so that we can all learn and grow through this together ❤️ God bless you!!!

[gracebreen]

New subscriber here 😊. I’ve been watching your older videos and just finished the birth story for Micah. I was in tears you are such beautiful souls and ppl. I’m almost 37 and have always wanted to be a mom. Unfortunately I have dealt with mental health struggles and seizures so I haven’t found that special someone. I’m so afraid that I will never be able to have children. I hate when I have doubts in god but I’ve been fighting so hard and so long and been in so many negative relationships I feel like giving up. I watched your video and a spark was lit inside my heart. It may not have changed where I am but it helped me believe I can have better times ahead. I’ve been in therapy since I was 7yrs old and it is very helpful. Speaking of fear that holds me back also in the relationship aspect because of sexual abuse starting in childhood and also in adulthood I’m scared to put my wall down so I’m always thinking did my wall prevent me or make me miss finding that special person and now it’s too late.

[egyptian]

I think what Chad and Tori were getting at is that God is so powerful and capable that thet don't want to limit Him to just a box.
For those people who are suffering and asking the "what if God can" question you already know is not His will for you and your situation can sometimes be disappointing and painful. A better statement might be "even if". Lord, I will follow you even if the storms in my life try to bring me down. Lord, I will follow you even if I lose my job, loved one, etc. And if you don't feel capable of saying that yet, pray that He will help you feel that way. He promises that He will be there in our times of trouble to comfort us. Trust Him that even if things don't work out now, that because of the grace of God all things will even if it's not until after this life 🤍

[kimberlyhowell]

Praying for you Chad and Tori! Love your channel ❤️🙏

[aconn]

I needed to hear this! Great message! ❤

[kenzz]

love knowing what’s new with you guys but I’ve definitely missed more of these types of videos filled with tons of wisdom 💙💙 but I love how you also find ways to pour into us using what God has taught you in your life changes/updates :)

[jaynepictures]

That's good guys. xx Thank you for being open about your struggle Chad

[Dana-mbhd]

Thank you guys so much for this!!!! 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷

[Sbro]

Dear ones…this is just the message I needed to hear this day! Flip the “what if?” Thank you for being obedient to share it❤