we're getting divorced

This is the hardest time of my life and one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. I am scared to share this because I know there will be judgement but ultimately I had to make this difficult choice for myself, my future and my kids. Thanks for your support.

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[stephs]

I remember her mentioning one of the biggest fights they ever had was that after their baby was born he was still going to the gym for 3 hours. I knew then and there that he was not as supportive as he should have been. Brittany is such a kind person, she really deserves someone who values her.

[SheaWhitney]

I love you Brittany...I am so sorry. You are a WONDERFUL human being and an even more amazing mother...you're a great friend and I will always be here for you!!! You'll get through this and I truly know your children will be ok. Again, I am so so so very sorry.

[stephaniecawein]

As a divorce lawyer, I could tell you it’s one of the hardest experiences you’ll ever go through in your life having said that you’ve taken the first step on the correct path you continue to be you and do you you’re pretty awesome person. Kudos on not saying anything negative about Ryan. That’s the best approach for both of you. Your children will internalize negative things either one of you say.

[BleedInAllColours]

You are not missing out on half of their lives. If we're honest, most of us just drag our kids along when trying to get through the day. Now you have the opportunity to carefully plan your time with them and concsiously enjoy it, because you can take care of all the other everyday stuff when they are with their dad.

[SandySupa]

Brittany, I cried when you broke down about missing 50% of your kids’ lives. I am a new mother and this devastated me too, but I realized it’s not really the case. You are their mother 100% of the time. You are a phone call and car ride away. You are in their lives forever and in every moment because you’re a good mother. I’m sorry for what you’re going through ❤

[genevieve]

I literally filed for divorce today after a 25 year marriage. It gets to a point when you’ve tried everything to salvage the relationship and realize that there is nothing left to do but move forward without each other. I’m proud of you for making this difficult decision.

[deirdrekokora]

Are you kidding me? I don’t know you at all but I can feel the love you have for your kids. Divorce is never easy. You can do this. You are strong. You are kind. You are smart.

[ThereseDavidson]

My parents divorced, i’m 35 and i feel so blessed they did. It saved me from alot of pain.

[thereseacklen]

Sharing my experience: I stayed in a loveless marriage for my child. I was miserable. We divorced after he went to college. My son told me later that I should have gotten a divorce many years ago and that I deserved to be happy. You are doing the right thing. I feel like he didn’t get that loving family feeling and he is leery of marrying. And the stress of living in that environment has damaged my health. You’ve got this!

[MimiXXL]

OMG 🥺 I started watching you when you lived on your own in your apartament. Was here for the proposal, first pregnancy, losing one, and the second little one. Felt out of touch for a few and I'm speechless now. Wish you and your family the best from the bottom of my heart ❤

[swinterprincess]

As a person who grew up with divorced parents, I can say divorce was the best decision they could’ve made for our family. They were not compatible, and I know growing up with them being together would’ve been much harder. Having happy, loving parents (even though they were apart) made my childhood amazing. We love you 🤍🤍🤍

[jaxxb]

I’ve not been a regular but steady follower over the years. First- please don’t apologize or feel you owe explanations to anyone. Buckle up/ buckle in and chin up! You got this! Your love for your kids will give you strength and a divorce is like a death of something. You will mourn- but in time God will heal your heart and give you peace that surpasses understanding. I have been where you are and my mother RIP now always said to me “you are not the first and you will not be the last”. Give yourself grace, cry it out and love yourself more and more every day. A day at a time, blessings to you from Nashville & from a divorcé living the life I one day prayed for. My pastor would preach that “you cant have the testimony without the “test” and the “moanies” lol it’s true. I pray all your family’s needs are met financial, spiritual and emotional.

[MJHButler]

We love you Brittany. You don’t owe us any explanation or apology. We support you and look forward to you being happier for yourself and your babies.

[havenshay]

As a 26 year old that went through a divorce alone a year ago - I am so honored to be let in on a few chapters of your journey. Thank you for letting us in & sharing part of the struggle. Being vulnerable on the internet is hard. Forever supporting & loving you Brittany!!

[ZarahInkeri]

I once heard about a woman who expressed that it was just as hard going through divorce as it was when her second husband died. The only difference was that when her husband died, everyone else mourned too, but when she had a divorce she was all alone in her grieving, because her ex was still the same to everyone else and only dead to her.

I know you'll come out stronger on the other side, because you are amazing, but it's okay to mourn the happily ever after that didn't happen. ❤

[karlapatylopez]

Is better to have a nice divorce than a unhappy marriage !!!
You can do this, you’re a strong woman!

[Denise]

As someone who went through a divorce from my childhood boyfriend I will tell you this. Someone told me this and even after 30 years I still remember it - You will never feel as bad as you feel right now at this moment. It gets better I promise you even thou it sucks right now. Cry when you need to and take time for yourself. Life is beautiful and you are worth your happiness. Sending strength and love.

[jdawg]

As a child NOT from divorce, I wish I was. It was hard to watch my mom deal with my dad. She would have been so much happier on her own. Sending you lots of love and hugs. ❤❤❤❤❤

[pepperpotts]

I never comment on videos but my heart is breaking watching this, so I hope you read this. I watch your videos all the time and love the content. I went through a divorce 20 years ago. You will not only survive it, you will thrive. Stop beating yourself up, guilt is a useless emotion. Focus on your kids and just live through it one moment at a time, until one day you’ll wake up and you’ll realize that you’re going to be okay. Be strong mama; you got this.

[TLA]

I’m literally shocked and so sorry for you girl … I have been watching you FOR YEARS. Like since you started 😢 my heart is broken for you