For people 40 and over #40plus #genx #40andover #relatable #shortsvideo #dating #reels

[barbaranelms]

He's right. She's not his type. She's no fool.

[queen_j]

After that "you are lying"? IMMEDIATELY BLOCKED. I'm not 40 yet, but I'm a few years away. Dating these days is weird. I can't be bothered with nonsense

[yvettetorres]

Blocked after “I know you’re lying”. I don’t have time for men who move with that type of energy and mentality. At our age, we have to surround ourselves with people who uplift and nourish and complement our lives, not pushiness nor possessiveness. Respect.

[shoshanasmith]

I had a guy tell me he found a white girl who is prettier and nicer than I could ever be. I told him GOD has finally answered my prayers, thank you GOD and I wished him and her a Long & Happy life together. No one's obligated to be your companion and insulting them isn't going to make them want you more. 😂🤣😵‍💫 👋🏾

[marionhenning]

I wouldn’t have responded after the lying accusation. Block his number… keep your peace😮

[peensezpibble]

I'm 72 and have been single for a 17 years. I went on two coffee dates through a match website and decided I just don't need this in my life at all. Living and being alone is the best place in the world for me.

[reneeallen]

I've been brutally honest since my twenties. Controlling, rude behavior is never acceptable, it leads to domestic abuse. My Dad explained to me the things I should always walk away from. This is on the list.

[ShamecaLyde]

That’s so true. I’m 44 and I have no patience for nonsense. Once I see it, it’s a done deal

[vennettegloud]

I was told that a gentleman NEVER invites himself to a lady's residence. He waits to be invited....👑

[mimi]

Just went through this a couple weeks ago. Talked to this guy who works at the DMV, seemed nice, exchanged numbers and the nightmare started. He called me with that "come over" nonsense. I told him when I gave him by number if I felt rushed at any point of our conversation I will block you, and keep it moving.

Well, I guess he thought I was playing. He wanted me to drop what I was doing at the drop of a hat knowing I stay busy during the week and I travel alot for work which I told him that in the beginning. He tried to get a attitude and tried to gaslight me like he was my man and ended up on the blocked list. I just hit 41 in March and I don't let anyone rush me, pressure me, or disrupt my peace. And I'm sure not going to any random man's house that I don't know like that. I'm way too old for that foolishness.

[LadyElizondo]

It's hilarious because it's true!😂😂
A person's tolerance for bullcrap dissipates with age.

[nettep]

The accuracy!!!! One day of texting and they think they're your man! I don't even know you yet and CALL me, I'm not with the texting!

[Sacred_Heart]

At least he showed his true colors before things got serious. The only positive. lol

[heatherwoods]

There is a reason why these fools are still They are ALL looking for a sugar momma to take care of THEM!!! BOUNCE BABY!!!

[qttimequeentriber]

This just happened to me.
He was 60yrs old.
First of all "Come over for WHAT?
That gaslighting manipulation crap because I wont let you have your way with me or my time.
Violation-Disturbing the Peace
BLOCKED 🚫😅

[christinabe]

so true! when you get older you do not want any drama and all that nonsense! I can stay home and rest by myself.

[SuzanneIYN]

I’ve had guys in their 30’s and 40’s act this way before we could even go on a first date. One time I was actually excited to meet a guy for a date, but asked to reschedule because I woke up with Covid-like symptoms, and he immediately accused me of having a boyfriend and that’s where I got sick from. Dude was 38 and talking like that. Big red flag

[huizilopoxtli]

When she texted that she had a lot to do, he should have responded: "Okay, let me know if I can be of any help. Take care and be safe."

[nsoromajames]

I was in my 30’s raising twins and gave this older man my number. He called me and was acting so insecure. Making so many weird accusations. I just met the guy. As a result I knew to never invite him to my house or share my address. Pay attention because folks show you who they are. Red flags are real!

[riggs]

I love how she looks around the kitchen like, “I know he is not talking to me.”