Sexless Marriage: Here's Why

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[Savvynomad]

Using sex to control a man is the worst type of dynamic a relationship can have.

[thedarkestowl]

"Endure my pile of emotional baggage for my conditional love."

[pescadorbill]

No sex no relationship. I got rid of my mine as soon as I realized that that was never going to end, no matter what strategy I used. It was the best decision I ever made.

[rogerdsmith]

If there’s no freedom to have sex, there’s no reason to be married. At best all you’re doing is being roommates. Even well-known Christian marriage counselors will readily tell you that this is one certain reason for divorce.
To refuse sex, is to actually break the marriage covenant.

[Wet_Willys_Wetter_Water]

Does anyone else notice a pattern where all the responses boiled down to "my feelings are more important than yours" ? Take note

[JamesPetroff]

It is amazing how many men in the comments let this issue slide. You are not even married at all. You are just a roommate paying expenses for some woman who does not care about you at all. She has "walled herself" off from even faking being a wife. And you think it is her hormones. Wait until she leaves you for being unhappy, and she is dating and having casual sex with men. Her sex drive will go through the roof. You should be able to recognize emotional abuse.

[lanky-x]

One understanding a man has when he gets married is not having intimacy with any other women and to have exclusive intimacy with the woman he marries. When she stops the intimacy she ends the marriage.

[gatorguysix]

This single handedly is the reason I’ve considered an affair due to feeling undesired, not pursued, and lack of sex. There is a physical, mental, emotional, and marital commitment element to sex between husband and wife. If you are not ready for that commitment, don’t commit.

[garrett]

This is horrific. What in God's name is wrong with these women. Cruelty isn't a big enough word.

[NicoleK]

This is one area I'm totally unsympathetic to women. My internal organs have glued themselves together, putting me in constant pain, and I still managed to keep my marital sex life alive. Why? Because my husband was worth it. He's not unreasonable, he's accommodating because of my health, but that just means it's more important to be intentional with sex rather than dropping it out all together. I want my husband to want me (especially when I feel ugly!!!), and it's stupifying to me how many women straight up hate their husband wanting them.

[americandissident]

My wife and I have a happy marriage of 13 years and we did have a dry spell that took a lot of work for us to get through. Now we have sex 8-12 times a month. It’s good. She initiates it probably 2-3 times a month. That’s a huge improvement compared to never.

I will say one thing: The day my wife gives one of the excuses that were stated in this video, is the day I file for divorce. The things those women said are flat out abusive.

[davedaniels]

Yes, I remember when my wife told me we were to old to have sex. I told her that I wanted to separate and divorce and then all of a sudden she woke up sexually. But I think it is fake and I'm going to leave her anyway! She has just been unwilling all of these years.

[timothygavin]

It’s no big deal…. Until you decide to get it somewhere else

[JAG]

If you as a good man are not getting sex no more from your partner that a red flag

[jakesdekker]

On day THREE of my honeymoon there was still no sex. There was no sex before marriage as per her “Christian beliefs”. I asked myself what the F have I gotten myself into?

[drich]

Not having sex with your man is like not putting gas in your car, expecting it to run flawlessly and being the victim when it doesn’t.

[ForceAlfaF]

No sex seems to be a major test women put in front of men.

Guys. You have nothing to lose if she flat refuses sex.

It's not a thing different than a man"s infidelity and you should pay anything to get that woman out of your life.

Let her know. "I'd rather part with everything I have than give you in this version of yourself so much as one more minute of commitment"

[JAG]

Alot of women like to blame men a lot when stuff happens big or small

[plasmaarmelund]

If wom3n get to say "I don't feel like having s3x anymore", men get to say "ok, I don't feel like protecting and providing for you anymore".

There is zero benefit for men to get married nowadays. I got divorced after 15 years of marriage. 8 of those years were practically s3xless. Now as a single man, I'm able to pursue my goals, desires, and needs freely.

[TheHillratwd]

I was told in a round about way I had to earn it, I guess I never did enough, that's the funny thing that cracks me up before we got married all I had to do was show up, now I have a whole list of things I've got to do if I don't complete them well I don't feel close to you, I don't feel, safe blah blah blah