UPDATE Friend's Been Posting Videos Of My Husband & Drool Over Them, So I Told Her BF... AITA

Story 1:
UPDATE: I (28F) Called My Friend a 'Creepy Weirdo' After She Posted a TikTok About My Husband (32M)
Story 2:
AITAH for proposing to my ex-wife's ex-best friend?

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[GCRedditStories]

Story 1: UPDATES 5:25 7:00
Story 2: 11:05

[Bleg]

Last Story:
the moment the ex spread the lie about OP being the cheater, he should've made things clear to the daughter instead of letting the ex continue to controll the narrative

[AsakuraYukiko]

S1: That creep is a legal liability. False accusation incoming.

[crazylarryjr]

Story 1, pre update, there is a basis for a lawsuit to get these taken down, if Tik Toc doesn't take it down. Post update, time to get a lawyer and with the witnesses, get a restraining order

[jacearmor]

S1: NTA. She *is* a creep! June should look in the mirror to see a cruel woman.

S2: NTA. Ex wife has no room to talk considering she cheated. Especially trying to lie to Lily. Make sure Lily knows the truth, do not protect her mother.

[poppy]

I would’ve publicly shamed her on tik Tok. Give her the attention she wants and the tik Tok drama sharks the blood they crave.
Nothing solves a problem like shaming and embarrassment.

[rokuth]

On Story 1, "... how cruel some women can be." June should take a look at the mirror to see a real cruel woman. OP, and her husband should also report June to the Police as filming a minor in a Dentist's Office and then posting it on Social Media breaks several laws.(My opinion, of course, and I may be wrong on the actual Law regarding Dentists and HIPAA.)
On Story 2, Martha should be given a book on Biology, and Human Reproduction. Simply stated, it is the Man's genetic material that determines the sex of the child, not the mother. Martha had just the same chances of giving OP a son, as does Sarah. Can someone say "Gaslighting"?

[Intrepid_A]

ST1
She's a creep and a bully, the fact that she said how cruel can some women whilst she herself has tons of images of op at her worst shows she's the cruel one.

[UnicornOfDepression]

Last: She is only talking shit because she wants to destroy your current relationship.
"You cheated on me. Your opinion means nothing to me."

[Symphonia]

That ex wife in the last story has a Lotta damn nerve preaching like that considering that she lied her own daughter on her cheating and try to criticize her ex for cheating and breaking up her own marriage. I don’t care what that last comment says nothing justifies her cheating at all.

[juliearmfield]

Story 1. Wow this went from creepy to bunny boiler

[EnDB]

Cheating is never the answer no matter the situation. So yeah, that last redditor is unhinged.

[taz]

Story 1 NTA but I'd talk to an attorney and have a cease and desist order put on her so that if she posts anything else she can be held legally liable for it and I'd also have her served with a no contact order as well. Depending on where you live those photos and videos that she posted could be criminal as taking videos of someone without their consent is illegal in many places and posting them without consent is illegal most places.

[viatheanimator]

i think typically, kids don’t need to know that one parent cheated on the other. that being said, when one parent lies and demonizes the other, you absolutely can and probably should set the record straight.

[crichtonbruce]

Story 1... Jane is bad news.
I don't know if she's a sociopath or something else, but I almost perversely admire her skill taking such a vast amount of candid film and photos without getting caught. Perhaps she could get a job working for a private investigator, or as a spy.
I wonder how many secret recordings of friends and family would be found if her cloud storage was examined.

[anthonygilmour]

Last Story: I hope that last commenter was OPs ex so that only one person on the planet is that unhinged 🤷

[marktwain]

1. NTA.

Taking videos like that, and posting them anywhere, is probably illegal, and certainly worthy of a law suit.

She is creepy.

[taz]

Story 2 NTA BUT getting involved with ANYONE connected to your EX is ALWAYS going to cause drama and speculation....if you marry Sarah you can bet that at least half your family and friends will assume you were cheating with her when you were married....this is why YOU NEVER get involved with someone who was close with your ex. I'd be rethinking that relationship with Saran because I don't see it ever working out well for your daughter if you two marry she will then become a pawn in a back and forth game. I wouldn't doubt that the ex will turn your child against you with lies.

[alexismyers]

I don’t understand the last comment on the second story… Sarah has morals and Maratha went against those morals. Sarah and OP became friends. So of course Sarah dumped the ho and offered refuge to her wronged friend. The fact that a relationship grew from that is irrelevant.

And so what if Sarah helped him connect with charities and understand causes? That’s what friends do! I didn’t know about The Zebra Coalition or The Trevor Project until I saw charity streams donating to them. That doesn’t mean that when I had a birthday donation thing on FB to The Zebra Coalition, I was doing it to get in bed with Dana Terrace. Friends introduce you to new things! The things Sarah introduced OP to just happened to her charities and equality movements.

[dabeast]

S1 june truly is a pos, she could have cost op's husband his job.
Last story ex wife literally cheated and destroyed the marriage, but then turns and gaslights the hell out of op for being with sara lol, you can't fix stupid.