How to Make Up After a Fight

How many times have you felt drained after a fight with your partner, longing to make it all okay, but been afraid that your attempts to do so will be spurned? I bet it's more than you can count - and at the same time you fear that your partner isn't going to take the initiative and try to make up either.

In this video I outline all the different experiences couples encounter that they label as 'fights.' A careful look at these interactions reveals that 'fights' are really feelings of separateness, a fear that you are alone in your world of reality and your partner is in another.

Based on the fear of being annihilated when your reality is erased by your partner's reality I offer you specific ways in which you can heal the breach and make up based on your similar fears. It's the basis for a relieving, satisfying and comforting reparation - where you heal wounds delivered during the fights and tend to scar tissues.