She Said What?!

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[triciacooper]

I completely agree with Dr. John description of that woman.
People can be very selfish and they shouldn’t hurt each other like that.

[bobbylacy]

I had cancer at 26. After all other options failed, I had a hysterectomy at 27. I met Mr. Perfect" a few months after. Since I already had two children (divorced) and he had none, he thought we might do surrogacy as long as I "agreed to release all parental rights" if we got divorced. WTF? His reasoning? I already had two children! Like a baby was a pair of shoes. When I wouldn't agree, I was "worthless, not even a real woman". I understand this man's pain. No matter what she says, he needs to be gone and stay gone.

[Avatar_AnaSofia]

Sending love to this guy. There is nothing wrong with you. Your value as a person doesn't depend on that.

[fawn]

That’s like saying what’s the purpose of a woman if she can’t have kids… biological functions DO NOT make a human being. The purpose of being a man or woman is to love and be loved.

[madunicorn]

My soon to be husband had a vasectomy in his 20s (now 50) he is the best man I have ever met and I am so beyond lucky that he loves me. Yes I just made that all about me and how great my husband is.

[kathleensmith]

What a beast! Thank God she showed her true colors and you got away.

[pnwlady]

That is contempt. Watch out for the four horsemen: criticism, defensiveness, stonewalling and contempt.

[Loyll]

Happens to women all the time over 40 being considered redundant

[rosey_ie]

Poor Alex 🥺 Such a cruel woman to have said this to you. Absolutely nothing to do with you Alex - this lies ENTIRELY on this woman’s shoulders.

[kenny]

No one should ever be spoken to that way, I feel for him

[JoseDiaz-rhvp]

I had a vasectomy at 26 after my wife had our 2nd child. Best thing I ever did. I love my kids, but I don't want anymore.

[charlotte]

As long as you tell the other you cant have kids before you get serious is best. No body who wants kids wants someone who cant have kids.

[ReginaMU]

Didn't they have the "kids/family" discussion PRIOR to getting engaged? His vasectomy would have been discussed too. Both parties had their own secret agendas and either of them not to be trusted.

[LauraMarieLive]

I had a hysterectomy at 26..As a woman without any living children, it was devastating. Especially when anyone would say something similar to what that girl said to you (Refuse to even call her a woman). Don't believe anything she said. She is the broken one bleeding on others. Don't allow her brokenness to break you too.

[sarahe]

Just run. There are many women out there that appreciate the vasectomy! No more birth control on our end!!

[secretsiren]

This happens all the time to women and it’s totally acceptable. Told a guy who said he was interested in me I told him he was 10 years too young for me and that he was barking up the wrong tree.

[trueirishdude]

It's important to remember/remind yourself that adopting a child can be just as fulfilling and rewarding

[Janie-px]

Absolutely deplorable! My heart aches for someone I don’t even know 😢

[fulltimeonfire]

Why is it that child free people tend to get the most flack just for not wanting kids, but I've noticed the people who do want kids are the ones who tend to run around ruining other people's lives. What's up with that?

[carmenhartman]

This is so true!!! She was gonna use u and then comes child suport❤❤ she was not" a wamon" she was a user....i am happy u were fixed so she could not. Take u for a RIDE❤