A narcissist can manipulate you into apologizing to them for something they have done to you

A narcissist can manipulate you into apologizing to them for something they have done to you. If you try to hold them accountable and let them talk too much, they can get you thinking that the situation is somehow your fault.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

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[moniquefisher]

This happened to me…the last thing I said to him was “I’m sorry for being so defensive when I spoke to you” but the more I look back on it the more I realise I had every right to react in that way after how they treated me 😔

[harmonyvaneaton]

I got terrified into begging for forgiveness for .... remembering. Apologized for my intact memory. In the moment it felt like the only way to stay physically safe. It's sickening.

[itsmayaiman]

Lee, as much as we love all the info, we’re really all waiting on you to post your skincare routine.

[michellem]

Every hurtful thing my narc ex did he blamed me for…made me feel like it was my fault..made me feel like a horrible person because HE cheated and lied!🤦🏻‍♀️

[mollysilverman]

I get yelled at all the time. And it’s been all day today. Because I’m fixing things.

[sonyalovest]

There narriccistic rage manipulation is real you completely described my narrisstic mother the emotional verbal abuse the stress is draining I'm at peace with no contact on point stay safe💙💙💙

[KS-qpml]

Narc bf... I am done... Cried to much... I am

[Modestnomad]

You either don’t have a voice, or on the rare occasion they listen to why you’re upset; you always end up apologizing (after hours of word salad, blame, and rage). I’ve never received an apology from my mother or my boyfriend. Both are full of rage and are abusive. There’s a pattern that is familiar to me.

[LunaC...]

I really needed to hear this today; I've been "this close" to apologising to my narc mother when in fact she was the one who violated my privacy when I was at a really low point. I called her out about it and now she's not talking to me. Why should I be the one apologising?!

[paulinamartinez]

For sure. It was like this for 15 years.

[KS-qpml]

Right.... I waited two hours to finish a call.... N then literally like 2 seconds when I was like can I talk to u... Oh wat u want. Why. I need shower now... And I told him how it's not right how you made me wait for 2 hours and then when I'm ready to talk you talking about I need to go take my shower completely dismissing me and it was just simple conversation I wanted and it hurts so much but I refused to cry while I was at work I was having this whole conversation in the bathroom of my job I refuse to give him any more of my time refuse to I'm going to book a ticket to st Maarten .... F it. Done feeling this way

[HRHisokthx]

So I left. I left him. I have bad flashbacks and I'm in pain. It's like a ton of bricks on you but everyday a brick is lifted off. I'm so glad to be away from him. I blocked my numbers. I stopped texting and now I just have to stop talking about him. Like now.

[mollysilverman]

I can’t clean or do dishes without being followed. He sits and watches
Me. My 16 yr old gets looked at
Like a piece
Of meat by him. This sucks. She won’t be anywhere near him.

[AnGeLaOYA]

FOR WTH? No matter how long the trauma. They implant bugs in your brain! You go along and are like, "I should probably apologize for my behavior. I mean, I can still be a good person even though they aren't." Then all those fences you put up to protect yourself ate threatened. 🤦🏻‍♀️.... Always WAIT and do NOTHING. WRITE! WRITE IT ALL DOWN and remind yourself constantly who and what you're dealing with.

[dermlover]

I’ve been fucked with so long I finally am saying screw this. I’m going to keep living here and saving my money while he continues to abuse, neglect, devalue, and give me the silent treatment. As least now I know I’m getting something out of it. I won’t pay a cent of rent or bills. He wants to abuse me then fine. I’m going to abuse him back, financially.

[dancingram]

Oh yea, been there, done that. It was awful and now they are gone. 🥰🥰🥰 Life is great now. ❤

[debbiecarleton]

I told my kids all about what goes on with him and they're going to do they're going to help me move back to California so thank you for giving me the courage to get away from him

[BratCatsu]

Yep, it happened to me and I had picture proof 👀🙅🏼‍♀️

[deeplyk]

He tried so hard but that was one thing he could never pull on me.

[hyma]

I clarified something on insta story about an ex toxic friend attitudes (i've been always giving but he never give anything back keep saying excuses like he doesn't have money and all that and he has been doing that for 5-6 years, blaming me something that i didn't ask him to like "i've done this but it seems it was all in vain for you") that i don't like and then i blocked him but somehow he saw it and keeps demanding an apology through instagram story through his other friend, he didn't want to approach me instead using his friend to make status about how bad i was... even though it's clearly his fault. He said i made up stories even though the screenshots were there...i won't apologize to that kind of person who demanded apology like a little kid when it's clearly his fault...he keeps stalking my account and it's a nuisance...why would i made up stories when the screenshots were there (i'm not the kind of person who likes to stir up conflicts) and now he keeps demanding an apology from me